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I had a bad day, it seems like it is one step forward and 2 steps back. Today she responded to my text in the morning and then she disappeared all day and is not responding anymore. She has been disappearing in the middle of conversations. I can't get in touch with her I don't know what to do!
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You are doing it totally wrong, you have to respond to her texts not the other way around..she had to send you first.
Don't text her anymore, visualize her texting you
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I had a bad day, it seems like it is one step forward and 2 steps back. Today she responded to my text in the morning and then she disappeared all day and is not responding anymore. She has been disappearing in the middle of conversations. I can't get in touch with her I don't know what to do!
I can tell you what not to do: freaking out. Maybe she has just more important stuff to do than to text you? That doesn't mean anything. Don't make negative assumptions, that's my lesson of those past weeks. I don't know, if you read my latest success story, but there is this guy I texted with nearly every day and suddenly he disappeared. I did my best to stay in alignment with my preference and guess what? It turned out that his brother had an accident and were in hospital. After that, my not always so good vibration played out and he didn't reach out so much anymore. I still stayed true to what I wanted to the best of my ability. I texted him yesterday, he told me that he needs a little more time for himself right now and that it has nothing to do with me and even though I tried to end the convo to give him his space, he texted with me all evening. This same guy even sent me a voice message this morning on his way to work. I'm pretty sure, if I had followed my bad assumptions, we weren't even in contact anymore, because I had already acted like the crazy, stalking girlfriend and that even without being in a relationship with him. Just because she doesn't text back it doesn't mean she doesn't like you. It's just your old vibration playing out and right now, you are reinforcing it and attract more of it.
Sasusaku wrote:
You are doing it totally wrong, you have to respond to her texts not the other way around..she had to send you first.
Don't text her anymore, visualize her texting you
You can't do anything wrong in this game of life. You can only attract to you what you don't want. There is not only one way to a desired manifestation. It's never about your actions, it's always about your vibration.
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Thank you, I texted her again this morning with no response, I asked her if she just needed some time and to let me know that I will understand but sh has not text back yet. I am going to stop texting and wait for her to text me back.
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Thank you, I texted her again this morning with no response, I asked her if she just needed some time and to let me know that I will understand but sh has not text back yet. I am going to stop texting and wait for her to text me back.
How about if you need time? You sound very dependent on receiving a text from her. Like Sanshi said you are freaking out. Chill out let the good things roll in because there are such infinite possibilities that the Universe can deliver but that ALWAYS dependent on you feel. Focus on aligning with your true self and then in no time once you are feeling aligned and happy those texts that you never got a response too will be coming all of the time. You're doing the right thing by ceasing texting with her. Choose you for once, not my happiness is based on if she texts me back at a certain time.Β
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Thank you, I texted her again this morning with no response, I asked her if she just needed some time and to let me know that I will understand but sh has not text back yet. I am going to stop texting and wait for her to text me back.
Don't wait. As long as you are in a waiting vibration you just get more reasons to wait for her.
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I will do that!... thank you so much guys for all your help!