Havefaith91 wrote:

I would take a few steps back. If you don't feel good while doing it then take a break. Forcing it will only push your desire further away because subconsciously you are upset or doubting. A great way I overcame this was to have the conversation I wanted in my head. I imagined him messaging me telling me what I wanted to hear and responding to him. I pictured my cell phone watched my fingers type the messages and heard the ding of my phone when he messaged me back. He has actually since then sent me some of the things I imagined😆😆😆

Yeah I was thinking of taking a few steps back too but I thought it was strange how I was so confident and pretty much okay with whatever the outcome for the last 3weeks but the minute one of my other manifestations happened (with my license) somehow I fell back into my current reality for a bit. That's why I got a bit confused with myself. I'm glad I realise now though instead of making the impulse move to contact him. Did you visualize, script and affirm each day? Or just did it when you felt good? 

Sanshi wrote:

Many people have a flaut premise in their thinking, when it comes to LoA. They still think that there is a "real world" outside and to change that real world outside they have to affirm, script, visualise and so on. But by thinking in this way, you give your reality power over you. It's not about how much you visualise, it's about how much thought and power you give to your reality. You could completely disregard reality and live in your dream world without even noticing what's going on outside of you and your reality had to reflect that.

It's understandable that a manifestation throws you back, because it directs your focus back on your reality. You can of course be happy about a manifestation, but maybe it makes it easier to stay aligned, when you acknowledge it as what it is - a reflection of your thoughts and not a surprising miracle.

If it helps, when the guy said I had passed my test I wasn't in shock. I was pretty calm inside. My instructor was more excited for me. And you're right, is it okay if I message you for more advice?

Havefaith91 wrote:

I tried to every day but if I was having a really down day I didn't do it because it only made me feel worse about not having my desire yet. Just remember what you are experiencing now is a reflection of your past thoughts. I kept telling myself that over again. That gave me more motivation to change that. To live in the reality that I truly wanted.

I see why people say you have to act and live in the moment. I have to start living and believing my man is with me now, with my car and new job. My mind is my real reality. The Universe has to give me what my mind says, right? I guess I need to keep reminding myself like you did, my reflection is of my past thoughts- I just need to change it and keep it up everyday without getting lazy and falling back into default habits. 

Havefaith91 wrote:

Exactly. When I wake up in the morning I start telling myself I am going to have a good day. I find things to be grateful for. I imagine waking up next to my loverall, which most days I do now. I just think good things and tell myself I will create a beautiful day and tell myself I am full of energy even if I am not and stay as positive as I can be. Normally if I start my day off well it is a preset to my whole day being amazing and feeling great. Sometimes I may watch an loa video just to remind myself😆 in the 3 years I have been practicing loa I belive you cannot get enough information. I watch the same videos all the time and I absolutely love it!

3years?! That is amazing. Is that how long it took you to manifest everything you have at the moment?! I love that. Will definitely have to keep reminding myself when I start to fall back into default mode. Hahaha.  
I message you btw, hope you don't mind