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Positivity · 11/15/2016 12:20 pm

Since I'm on the letting go state, I accepted to go out on a date with this new guy. He really liked me and reminded me all the good qualities I have as a woman. He said I'm the perfect catch during the whole night. I had a good time. I know I'm a powerful person, I know my love knows that, is just a matter of divine timing. I know we need to heal, I just dont want to forget about him. Im doing my joyful expansions and when I got into that happy state, it kind of scares me a little bit because I feel like he is fading away. This is the guy I love, How can I keep him Close and also activate my well-being actitude without forgetting about him? Is it ok to go out with a new guy? Another important question, since I'm vibing higher, like I feel I'm healing, realizing I'm a total good person, responsible and all that positive stuff, I'm wondering, if my love still a match for my vibration? You know Abraham says your desire have to match your vibration, what if he is on a lower vibration and thats why?

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happyhan20 · 11/15/2016 1:28 pm

Ive been thinking the exact same thing..

Little Red Robin · 11/15/2016 4:21 pm

I'll have a go at answering First of all, you can't think anything contrary to your desire/concept of your love. So, if you think he is on a different vibration, then that will push him away. Instead, why not choose to believe that there is a dimension or version of reality where you and your love are completely happy and in vibrational harmony together? And that if that is possible, then the two of you will 'line up' and be a match.
However, we are all evolving on the levels of consciousness and if you are more in tune with someone else and this is more desired that what was previously, then you are likely to line up with that more, BUT ONLY, if you give THAT your ATTENTION. It's all about what you're giving your attention/focus to. So, simply choose your love or be open to a new man, whatever you feel is right for you and enjoyable. You can feel close to a SP if you engage in heart healing meditation or visualising holding hands and looking into each others eyes in a loving way or 'seeing/feeling' any other sensations/emotions that are positive and filled with love with that person. That will keep the connection alive for you, and I also believe, 'entrains' their vibration with yours.

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big_blue · 11/15/2016 5:07 pm

YES! Go out with the other guy. Have a great time! Letting go does not mean you're pushing your person away, it means you're letting go of the resistance (doubt, worry, fear, etc.) that surrounds the desire. GO out with another guy, GO have fun, GO raise that vibration! Put your attention on something else, let the resistance fade, and who knows, your guy may be coming right back.

LOA is not meant for you to be miserable all the time. No, it works best when you're feeling great, vibing high, and overall enjoying life. If going out with another person makes you feel those feels, enjoy it! Have fun with this - that's what the law wants you to do. LOA is supposed to be easy! Resistance and overthinking gets in the way and then delays the receving of everything. Relax, have a good time, and just enjoy everything coming your way.

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Alycat1110 · 11/15/2016 6:04 pm

From personal experience this has been the best thing to do especially since you're in the letting go phase! In fact I remember previously when I first started using LOA almost 9 years ago I did bring back a specific person, but eventually I realized that he wasn't the one for me, but after my first date with someone I went on to date for almost 6 years that SP called. You have the power!

Manifestress · 11/17/2016 4:20 pm

Can I just say that once I got happy with another guy, my exes started coming back to me. One even asked for another chance even though he knew I was with someone else. This guy is someone who has so much pride and took years to admit his mistake. I had the chance to go back with him but I was happier with this other guy. I believe that even though you go out with another guy, your exes will come back because they feel your high vibration and it is up to you to choose whether you wanna go back or not. I think it's definitely because of the higher vibration that they are attracted to and also because you no longer doubt or worry about your ex. I prayed so hard on one full day for my ex to come back and let go and took years for him to come back but he did, only when I was so happy with someone else.

Positivity · 11/17/2016 9:02 pm

Thank you everybody! I appreciate all of your advices! I'm feeling better tonight. I'm calm, pampering myself, taking care of my health, finding a better job, I manifested 2 interviews, I know I will get my dream job soon, etc. Since the separation, my love and I never cut communication, last time we talked was last saturday, because I need it to get something I left at his house. Thats when I decided to take time off so we could heal better and also to give space for the manifestation to happen. This back and fwrd thing wasn't working even tho he was in the picture. I know this time is going to happen, our big time reconciliation is happening, I can feel it. Many blessings to you all. 💞

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