Laura1234 wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

Jupitaria wrote:

Something similar happened to me last week with my guy...I posted a thread about it. I was really down and devastated, but people on here really helped cheering me up. Now, a week later, I found a way to put things into perspective.

When you look at it rationally, blocking someone is a pretty strong reaction. Would you block someone you're completely indifferent to? Probably not. The way I see it, only strong feelings towards someone can provoke such a strong reaction. So, what it really comes down to is this: even though blocking someone seems like a very negative thing that's pretty much the opposite of what you'd like to see happen, when someone reacts to you that strongly, they are probably just scared of their feelings for you, which actually is a good thing. And we all know that love can be scary and some people might react to it with fear, trying to run away from it. But nobody can run from their feelings forever, they are gonna catch up with them sooner or later.

So keep doing what you were doing and keep believing! He'll come around sooner or later...

EXACTLY my situation and exactly what I've been realising lately! ❤️ Strong feelings can be scary for some.

Why are strong feelings for some scary??
 

They've never felt that way before or they have and were hurt etc

I just think sometimes in my case, I ended up looking like a crazy ex girlfriend.  Too desperate to give him up.  Sometimes I wonder if there is any hope, because I messed up so much AFTER the split.  

jenbeckley1992 wrote:

It is the same way if you've been removed or is it only for being blocked? I wasnt the only one removed from his friends list, I saw that he removed loads of people after i did RS, is this a good thing? It werent just me. And it seems that he only removed girls no guys.

Ultimately,  I would see it as the same.

My opinion is that some of the other girls probably fancy him as well. If he is acting out due to strong feelings for one of them,  I can see him deleting them all to avoid complications.  So,  in my opinion it is good.

Avaelle wrote:

Hopeful one wrote:

Ayutsu wrote:

My ex. So we are apart due to an odd reason which I'll vaguely put as fear of intimacy. Anyway, I promised I'd stop pursuing it and I let him go. No contact. I have been doing rs. Mainly the lanie method but occasionally the Wendi mp3. Today I noticed he's blocked my personal account on various social media accounts. Now, He knows I can still see his stuff from my biz accounts and I could contact him if I wanted. So why block me? The only reason I would block someone who wasn't contacting me would be to prevent myself from stalking their accounts, which I've done before when I had trouble getting over someone. Thoughts?

Okay, I have to ask.  What is the Wendi mp3.  I have done a few Lanie guided meditations, but haven't had much luck.  Any tips?

Don't tell yourself or think that you aren't having much luck.  Tip: Just because there aren't any signs doesn't mean it isn't working. It always is.

Thank you so much.  I needed to see things.  I doubt myself so often