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"I'm doing my best and every day it gets EASIER.." π
You're doing GREAT!! ππΌβ¨
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Cherished wrote:
"I'm doing my best and every day it gets EASIER.." π
You're doing GREAT!! ππΌβ¨
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I like that! Thank you!!!
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Cherished wrote:
"I'm doing my best and every day it gets EASIER.." π
You're doing GREAT!! ππΌβ¨
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When I don't think or worry about what's going to happen things just happen. Yesterday as I was driving to work I was behind a car that had a license plate "punkinn". I called her pumpkin. When I wanted her to be at a business function last night she wasn't there. I watched a video on YouTube with Abraham hicks "please proof to me, this works " and it totally made sense. When I am positive and confident like before things just happen, but if I'm always wondering when, when, when will it happen? It will slow things down.
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Yes! Exactly! The proof is in the.. Pumpkin! π
So try to really hone in on what you were "feeling" when you were confident. Train yourself to settle into that knowing, easy vibration. Because then you relax, let go of your resistance and you've immediately untied the hands of the universe. And you can already see.. They go waaaay overboard bringing you things that delight you and are totally meaningful to you!! But the moment you WANT, NEED, LACK.. Nope, you've tied up their hands again. And they have to hang around waiting until you are vibrating in a non-resistant way again. So it's easy. Get back to that feeling. More and more. Cultivate that vibration of trust and joy and knowing! And as you do that, simultaneously you let go of your need for her so much because life becomes so ENJOYABLE! And then she comes!
Last edited by Cherished (10/08/2015 2:33 pm)
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Can you clarify Need , want, lack? How can i focus just the positive without wanting?
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It's tricky initially, but it comes with practice. It's recognising that you're in needy mode, and then doing something fast to shift back to knowing yo're fine. I do focus wheels, and actually I find that meditating brings be back to a non-resistant state. And so from there I do affirmations or RS. For me, regularly visualising what I want helps me to feel much better. I don't feel the lack/wanting so much when I "spend time" in my virtual reality. And the number of things that have happened exactly as I've imagined in my virtual reality- it's kinda spooky!! It's fabulous. So bank that- you KNOW if you focus on a reality where she's already yours, she will be. Listen to Abe, they are so so good at explaining it and releasing your resistance. Spend more "time" with her in your virtual reality and then resume your day in joy and happiness knowing that she's yours.
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Thank you!! That helps
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There's a good Abe clip "shifting from wanting to expecting"
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Great response Cherished!
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I went to the hospital where she works today to meet one of my Doctors and ran into a rep there who said someone showed her picture of me and my son. I don't know anyone at that hospital. So that was weird since my ex and I are not friends on FB