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After Vis, he unblocked me. But doesn't reach out
Hi everyone.
After my ex and I broke up I moved on, but I have been thinking lately what great company he was and how much I would love to be friends with him again.
Until recently he had me blocked on FB. All that time his last message to me from there had "You cannot reply to this message" written below (meaning I was blocked). But several days ago the strangest thing happened: I did a visualization where I "stepped into" his body. I guess it was basically a kind of "remote viewing/remote Influence" meditation. When I stepped into his body I "became" him and I actually imagined being at his laptop and unblocking me from that hacked account. I vividly imagined all the steps and the feelings he would have had.
That night I suddenly had the urge to check that old message. It was a strong impulse that I had to follow. And I found that the "You cannot reply" had disappeared. So it seems I am unblocked.
But what do I do now? Days have gone by and so far he doesn't reach out. I'm nervous because, when we first broke up he eventually unblocked me from his real FB account. I waited for him to contact but he didn't. I began to sense he was waiting for me to make the first move. When I did nothing he blocked me again, after 2-3 weeks. So right now I'm scared that he is giving me this "chance", but that if I don't reach out he will eventually block me again. I have to say that I really don't want to be the one to make contact.
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Re: After Vis, he unblocked me. But doesn't reach out
I have to admit that I don't really feel comfortable with giving advice to you, because you have guided me in my early days here, but I have something to say, so I hope it helps anyway.
First of all, congratulations for nearly manifesting him back once again.
I think you are too focused on your current reality. Only because it happened once, it doesn't mean that it will happen again. It can only happen again, if you expect it to happen again, so drop it. It isn't what you prefer. So why not assuming that he is just scraping his courage together to text you? Or even better, why not assuming that he has already texted you? If you feel resistance towards contacting him, don't do it. It's a clear hint that it's not the way to go for now.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
- Debbie
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Re: After Vis, he unblocked me. But doesn't reach out
Sanshi wrote:
I have to admit that I don't really feel comfortable with giving advice to you, because you have guided me in my early days here, but I have something to say, so I hope it helps anyway.
First of all, congratulations for nearly manifesting him back once again.
I think you are too focused on your current reality. Only because it happened once, it doesn't mean that it will happen again. It can only happen again, if you expect it to happen again, so drop it. It isn't what you prefer. So why not assuming that he is just scraping his courage together to text you? Or even better, why not assuming that he has already texted you? If you feel resistance towards contacting him, don't do it. It's a clear hint that it's not the way to go for now.
Awww Sanshi no reason to feel uncomfortable. I have always found your wisdom, your kindness, and your advice especially helpful to my situation.
After reading your advice and also another friend's advice, I have decided not to make any contact. I really do feel resistance to the idea and so yes, on reflection I think you are absolutely right.
The remaining part of your advice is also very helpful to me because, yes, I need to drop expecting him to behave this way. That is very true and I will get to work on it.
Thank you so much! :-)
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