So after talking to the lovely Sanshi, I have realized that I was in the right place. I am experiencing my relationship NOW and not paying attention to the current reality. I thought I needed to constantly be visualizing and affirming and doing RS but all I need to do is ignore current reality and focus purely on my new relationship. I feel like I am once again on the right track and it feels so good! A huge thanks to Sanshi and anyone else who has given me advice!