Staceylouuu91x wrote:

I've attracted my guy back once and then manifested my fears. I'd focus on daily scripting, meditating to calm myself down, visualising too I think. I pretty much set my intention, aligned with it and focused on myself in between. 

How long was the time frame? I know its a sin to ask that on these forums lol but I am trying to attract my boyfriend back and he is my first love, so not sure if that will either help or hurt me, and I've never used LoA before.

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

Around a month the first time but I had absolutely had no doubts, no fears and no resistance. By the end of that time frame I didn't even care if he chose not to come back, I realised I had nothing to lose and more to gain. Try not to think about how long it'll take though, that'll only set you back. Once you're aligned with your goal it'll manifest, that depends on where you are emotionally. 

Yeah that's where I am struggling is with the doubts, fears, and impatience. And letting go. Not sure how to do this when I have some obstacles in front of me. I'm trying to not think of them as obstacles, but it can be difficult. I'm stuck in this doubting phase right now where I am thinking of giving up unfortunately, even though I believe my boyfriend and I will be back together again in reality. 

zionthecomedian wrote:

I did it twice in high school before with 2 different guys without knowing.
I set an intention and worked on myself.
They both came back to me on separate occasion but I realised the relationships weren't healthy. Probably cause we kept basing it on our previous relationship, and I ended up doubting and fearing.
Both took me around 6months each but back then I had all the time in the world, and I enjoyed the process of being chased by them twice. 

I've currently set my intention for my SP. I know he's coming back cause let's face it. No one will love him like I do and we are a perfect match. To be honest I just think the timing wasn't good and the Universe is giving us a 2nd chance as soon as the timing is perfect so we can have our well deserved long term relationship. I just need to keep my vibrations up and in the mean time work on myself, meditate, script and visualise.

I love how you say...nobody will love him like I do. Thats exactly what I think about mine. He is not perfect...I am not perfect either so we fit. He is mine 
 

I have attracted mine back several times. I have the insecurity problem that I am working on overcoming it does not take me long at all. The most was a couple weeks. I have also been practicing for over 3 years. I am different than others. Do not base your success on the time frame of others it will only let you down, cause you to worry. Your success depends on you knowing without a doubt that you can have your love and that you already do have him! It depends on you being content with everything as it is right now being happy and in love with yourself right now and living as if you already have him. I wish you the very best😆😆😆