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Me and my ex broke up in March. I still gave him his birthday presents. He had lots of my belongings at his. We are still friends on Facebook. We have broke up before and got back together. When we first broke up I acted like the crazy psycho ex girlfriend. I know he has opened his presents as I saw on Facebook he was using one of them. He didn't make any effort to give me my stuff back. Every time I tried to make arrangements he never did. Then finally after I messaged his mum I got my stuff back. I don't know what to do. I have been watching Veronica videos, visualising for months now. I feel like I have been getting signs though. I keep seeing g the 11 11 and repeating numbers. I bumped into my exs best mate and we spoke. And when I was with my mum; my ex drove past me. Surely that's not a coincidence to be at that specific time?? I'm really struggling at the moment. I feel at times I'm on the right frequency but then others I'm not. Can anyone help? Xxx
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Do you have a little more concrete question? I feel that the reason you haven't attracted a response yet is that your question is a little too open. What is it that isn't clear to you?
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Hi , sorry.
What I'm basically asking is why is it taking so long? Will it happen?
I've had a few signs (if you would call them that?) but nothing is happening?
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It takes long to manifest what you want when you have resistance around it. Let go of what happened in the past and then come from a place of love. Listen to uplifting material and get happy about your life. I started off with The Secret and watched the documentary and more than anything it inspired me to find out more about LOA. So then I started to read and watch Abraham Hicks and really began to get inspired. I got clear on what I had to let go from my previous relationship and took responsibility for our demise. It was my fault. I also had to forgive myself for that and for the things I believed in my heart were true ie. maybe he cheated but I'm not sure. That took time. Once I did this and visualised and meditated and listened to positive material I began seeing my goal of manifesting my babe back as just normal. I feel normal. It is almost like he is here. Align with yourself and then you will align with your goal. And that will take as long as you need it to because falling in love with yourself is not an overnight thing. Stopping negative self talk is not an overnight thing either. These days, I know my babe is on his way but I'm not waiting. I go out with my friends, I have an amazing night in with myself and I do what I like to do. That doesn't mean he isn't coming back--thats when it is the closest IMO
About signs, I see my love's car, his name, 111, 1111 and other things that would only be specific to him and I. It use to really excite me that I was seeing this but seeing the signs is the first part. It's like building up your trust in the Universe that this will happen. So then you slowly realise you do not need to see signs. So when I see my love's name, his car, those numbers, or whatever its just like okay cool I'm aligned and I trust the Universe. TRUST THE UNIVERSE!!! from this place oh man will you manifest. I also started a gratitude practice. What is it about yoour life are you grateful for? I write 10 things in the morning and why and 10 things in the evening in why. It cultivates self love from where you are now. I also, write what I appreciate about my Love. Sometimes its his beautiful smile and other times it is his motivation to always fight for myself and not let my depression and anxiety get the best of me.
Good luck!
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Will it happen? Yes, if you are able to let it in. It can take you a day, a week, 10 months or a lifetime. It's completely up to you. The more you focus on What Is the more you get of What Is. The more you focus on your desired reality the quicker it can come. It takes so long, because you still give more attention to your reality than to what you want.
I have had never signs for things that actually manifested for me. In my opinon, signs are just manifestations. You don't let in what you really want, so the universe matches your vibration with things like your guy's name, his car or whatever. For me, it's just a sign that you have still resistance going on and don't let the full manifestation in.
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positivefairy16 wrote:
Hi , sorry.
What I'm basically asking is why is it taking so long? Will it happen?
I've had a few signs (if you would call them that?) but nothing is happening?
My best bet is that although you have been putting all the work in, you've not yet learned to let go of the situation. You need to let him go in order to get him back. It is difficult but you must try. Keep yourself busy, do new things or do the things that you enjoy doing. Go out with mates and have fun...date different people. A LOT of the time exes seem to resurface when a person has moved on or when they are put on the back burner, you may find that this is the case.This happened to me. Not with the ex I am trying to manifest back but when we were going out..my other exes would text or whatsapp me whilst I was in the middle of a date! haha My point is to try and enjoy yourself...however you see fit,
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Thanks everyone, such great advice.
I think I've just been having a few really negative weeks. I do keep myself busy, I go out with my friends etc. I do believe that anything is possible, last year we had such a bad breakup and I really was crazy but we still got back together and had a better relationship then we first did. I do feel like I'm holding onto anger because part of me is annoyed that he accepted the presents off me yet didn't say thankyou. I felt like I was making a big step in letting him go by finally getting my stuff back. (He kept hold of it for 6 months) Also when I have been on nights out I have stupidly drunk text him. Can anyone give me advice on how I let go of him in order for him to come back?
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I really felt a huge shift when I understood that I was forgiving myself and him because it was better for me. I was very angry because I attracted negative situations and I knew this because he broke up with me LIKE I IMAGINED IT. I mean it, he said exactly what I thought. I noticed that you said we had such a bad break up last year. Well I hope I don't sound mean but you gotta rewrite that. You still have that on your mind it's got to go. When you feel guilty, when you feel low, when you feel depressed that is a low vibration and you are only going to get what is in vibration to your low vibration. When that thought pops into your head or you remember he didn't return your stuff just say "I forgive you, and I forgive me" believe it. LOA is about thoughts and feelings. Whatever thoughts you put feelings into, you will receive good or bad. No way around it. From my experience I really have relied on no contact. That means no drunk texting. But I also think with time you won't feel like you need or want to text him. You enjoy the time and people you are with.
With that being said, take one day at a time. If you can't do that, take one minute at a time. Do what you can to feel better. At the end of the day you have to love yourself so focus on that. Learn to trust in your own power and the power of the Universe. If you feel low and are questioning the Universe and if it will deliver your manifestation, test it. Ask the universe to see something that reminds you of your Love. It might not come instantly but it will if you believe it. Set the intention and let it go! Voila!