From experience I've had games backfire on me. Focus on the relationship you want and once it manifests embrace it! 

Laura1234 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

I know I repeat myself, but it's never about the action you take, but the vibration you are emitting while taking the action. Playing games and LoA don't fit together. LoA is about how you feel about something and not about what you have to do that the other person thinks a specific way. That's the reason why all this "get your ex back" programs that aren't based on LoA mostly don't work. The people do what the ex back guru tells them, but they are depressed, they are needy, they don't work on themself. It can't work.

 
So it isnt never about the my behavior and action but just about my vibrations? When I wrote something bad him but I have a good vibrations so he still will want be with me because his attract my vibrations?😃 Or when I wrote him that I miss you( I didnt want wrote it him never but I was drink ) but my vibrations would be high so It wouldnt matter I wrote him ? I always do something what I regret later. .I hadnt wrote him that he miss me..

Yes and no. When you write something bad to someone, your vibration isn't high. It doesn't feel good to do that, right? When you miss someone, your vibration isn't high. Missing someone doesn't feel good. That are actions from the vibration of desperation and fear. But you can contact someone from desperation and you can contact someone from love. Your action is the same, the vibrations completely different and the two outcomes can't be the same.

RoJ wrote:

Is it okay if I contact the specific person first?
 

Sure it's okay. You can't get it wrong. But the outcome depends on your vibration. If your vibration isn't in the right place, chances are that the situation seems worse to you afterwards. It isn't really worse of course, but it's likely that it's harder to believe for you that you can get your person after something went wrong. That's the reason why it's mostly the best thing to stick to no contact.

And how we will have behavior when we already will with our loves?..We trying get back our loves.. so we doing RS, script, we learning about selflove ,we  take him off from pedestal, we doing visualisation etc etc etc... but what we will do when we will in a relationship again?what we should do that never we break up again? Have we always do rs and visualisation or what do people who already have their loves back? .