I have gotten a few messages asking what I do to "act as if" so I did the whole making room for him thing but it didn't get me into the feeling of having him with me. So I started listening to our playlists we made together, I started doing my makeup and wearing nice clothes again. Somehow it got me into a place where I started pretending he was next to me at all times, I pretend to have conversations with him at bed time and I watch movies we once saw together sometimes. It's not so much as "acting as if" it's more "feeling as if" do whatever makes you feel like you're already in a loving relationship, do what you used to do when you were in the relationship. Pamper yourself and most importantly LOVE YOURSELF!!