I would say that this is the place that you would: 1. SET YOUR INTENTION. It is not your responsibility nor concern to worry about that over there with that ex. Do not give her power or any gas. There is no "she".
2.Do not think of him as "emotionally unavailable" because that will make that situation even more dominant and this is not what you want. Remember: Thoughts become things. Think thoughts that are more favorable towards You. Manifest the good, the desired result and not the unwanted things. Become a deliberate creator.
3. Speak: _____ is wild about me! Crazy about me! I am what he wants. I am his total choice. I compliment him. _____ chooses me! He is open to me - only. He values me...etc. JUST AFFIRM what it is that you desire.
4. Do whatever you must to FOCUS YOUR MIND ON YOUR DESIRED REALITY. (this is where I have been struggling and I refuse to keep doing this!) FOCUS. FOCUS. FOCUS. Ignore the present reality-I believe that Veronica has a video on this subject alone. (I need to watch this every single day-maybe every hour! lol.) SEE what you desire to have until you Believe what you SEE and it manifests before your very eyes. Some also call this, "acting as if"...some do not like the term. But what I will say is Feel - it - Real! Feel that it is happening in your favor for you. And the most important part is to EXPECT what you desire to happen.
4. Allow it to happen. No stress. No anxiety. Do what makes you feel good and continues to boost your confidence level,etc. For me, it is working out-LOVE IT! I have a few other hobbies so it keeps me busy busy-but no matter how busy you are...you can always find yourself thinking "negative". Just Focus and believe.
Now I struggled with answering this question-I am very curious as to what others would say as well-BUT I realized that some of this is somewhat like I "thought" my situation to be...so.....this is what I found and was told. I hope that it helped you. If I can leave anything with anyone I would whisper "Focus...focus...focus..." You do know that it is all about you, right: :-) 
One thing I always have to remind myself is: I am a CREATOR not a REACTOR!
 

HisladyHislove wrote:

I would say that this is the place that you would: 1. SET YOUR INTENTION. It is not your responsibility nor concern to worry about that over there with that ex. Do not give her power or any gas. There is no "she".
2.Do not think of him as "emotionally unavailable" because that will make that situation even more dominant and this is not what you want. Remember: Thoughts become things. Think thoughts that are more favorable towards You. Manifest the good, the desired result and not the unwanted things. Become a deliberate creator.
3. Speak: _____ is wild about me! Crazy about me! I am what he wants. I am his total choice. I compliment him. _____ chooses me! He is open to me - only. He values me...etc. JUST AFFIRM what it is that you desire.
4. Do whatever you must to FOCUS YOUR MIND ON YOUR DESIRED REALITY. (this is where I have been struggling and I refuse to keep doing this!) FOCUS. FOCUS. FOCUS. Ignore the present reality-I believe that Veronica has a video on this subject alone. (I need to watch this every single day-maybe every hour! lol.) SEE what you desire to have until you Believe what you SEE and it manifests before your very eyes. Some also call this, "acting as if"...some do not like the term. But what I will say is Feel - it - Real! Feel that it is happening in your favor for you. And the most important part is to EXPECT what you desire to happen.
4. Allow it to happen. No stress. No anxiety. Do what makes you feel good and continues to boost your confidence level,etc. For me, it is working out-LOVE IT! I have a few other hobbies so it keeps me busy busy-but no matter how busy you are...you can always find yourself thinking "negative". Just Focus and believe.
Now I struggled with answering this question-I am very curious as to what others would say as well-BUT I realized that some of this is somewhat like I "thought" my situation to be...so.....this is what I found and was told. I hope that it helped you. If I can leave anything with anyone I would whisper "Focus...focus...focus..." You do know that it is all about you, right: :-) 
One thing I always have to remind myself is: I am a CREATOR not a REACTOR!
 

WOW! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! I NEEDED THIS. I shall do this. 
 

"Emotionally not avaible" is a lable you put on him. It's not the story you prefer, so tell a different one. You are the creator of this, so you have the power to change it.