I would recommend to meditate because It quiets your mind.
I think It doesn't cancel your Manifestation but It slows down.

Congratulations for your successes in other area. Focus on that because It shows your power!

Thank you both <3
I will try using meditation more and follow my heart focusing on what I want and not on what I don't. I have a question though how can I change thoes thoughts and stop them when they do pop into my head? Should I just tell my self stop! And laugh at them in my head because I know they are silly and negative, would that work?

The problem with this "automatic" thoughts is that you have practiced them so much that they have a lot of momentum going on. As you said, it isn't that easy to stop them. What works for me is going off the subject for a while. Think about other things. Can be anything. My favorite random subject to think about right now are unicorns. It's fun to see unicorns popping up everywhere. After a week or so, you will notice that the negative thoughts that came automatically before don't longer feel so real. They feel more distant. That's because the momentum has slowed down. After that, it gets easier to think in the direction of what you want.
You can also use some of the processes that are introduced in "Ask and it is given" by Abraham.

I get that sometimes too but I don't engage with it, I kinda let it float away then reassure myself he loves me, deep down he knows I do, deep down he knows he loves me too and the love I've given him is unconditional. No other girl will love him as much as I do & I deserve the relationship I'm trying to manifest! When I feel really low I write down all the things I can bring into our relationship and reassure myself he sees this too so why would be bother looking for someone else?!

AceWay123 wrote:

Hi,

You can not create a reality for another person. You can not create a relationship for one person with someone else. That's their choice only, it's their reality.

LOA is all about you.

What you want.

What you can gain.

If you think this person is in another relationship, it won't become true, unless the other person decides to be in another relationship.

The only thing that will happen to you, is your manifestation will become slow.

You will slow your manifestation because of your resistance.

However, it will not create a relationship that you are doubting.

Hi ace,
I mostly agree with all your posts and articles but in this one i have slight disagreement because because i have gone through this.
I was suspicious About one girl he used to meet and felt terrible if i saw a pic of two being together. I used to doubt that what if they may be dating. It wasn't true though unless loa started matching my thoughts with reality. It was me who created this because he loved me even after our break up ( the cause of break up was something else). So how could he move on so quickly. He told me too that due to family and everything he is dating her. I don't know about present.
But i am damn sure i was the one who attracted my break up and his being with someone else. Thats why we must be very conscious of what we are thinking because loa doesn't know good or bad it just keep matching your vibrations with situations.

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