Hi all, just wanting to share a little about how I'm doing.  So, it's been quite a journey since April.  I discovered Veronicas LoA for attracting a SP about a month later and began right away.  It really did help with the healing and everyone on here helped to support me on the journey of realizing how I could change the relationship around.  My guy and me live close by and work together so we had already decided to be friends and always saw each other (and still do) regularly.  We are getting on great just now. I have seen how things between us improve when I have been giving it more of my positive attention e.g positive scripting, affirming, visualising, and just expecting things to be well when we're together.  I've grown as a person, I'm more confident and sexy and other males I know give me attention but I'm not interested in any of them.  Whilst I started writing this post, my guy messaged me!  And, I haven't heard from him since lunchtime.  He messaged me this morning and we met up for a coffee.  I love being with him and I know he loves being with me.  He said he would make us some dinner the next time he is round at mine (which is quite a lot)  I still love him very much and in the past week I have felt a very warm energy around us, like when we are standing next to each other or like, when I caught him really looking at me when I suddenly looked up.  I could hypothesize about his thinking re: us etc but it would negate the work I'm doing so I know I always have to only focus/give my attention to what I desire to come about.  So, my advice is to ignore the present.  Give your full attention to only what you desire.  But, in a relaxed way!  When you visualise, see it and feel it, and then let it go.  I started to feel so much better when i finally let go, meaning, that I wasn't 'waiting' anymore.  I was more in a state of just knowing, confident in my desire coming true and then trusting that it is so, and then just get on with the day.  That is the best way.  When they see you getting on with your life and going out, being with other people, it is better all round.  Assume you are with them.  Assume they are thinking about you.  Assume they want to be with you and love you.  Assume assume assume.  You can tell I read neville? lol  His books have helped me so much!   The more you believe, the more it works!