Hey guys, its been a while since I posted anything, but I've been  lurking, reading up on LOA, but im still learning and today I hit a bizarre moment that I just can't put my finger on.

I'll give a little back story though. My specific person and I are friends, and we work together. We get along great, but we always seem to be dancing around each other. She'll show me tons of affection, then work will send us different places for a while, and we'll come back and start again it seems. However, as frustrating as this can be, I know spiritually that we're together already, and i know it's perfect.

Nonetheless, today I found out that she'd just started seeing someone who we work with (about a month as of writing). I was a little dissapointed when she told me, but that was it. I just, kinda, shrugged it off. Like "no big deal".

Now I know that I've attracted this somehow, (browsing social media, looking for proof, questioning whether she actually likes me, ''what's she up to?" Etc.) in my weak moments. But still, as silly as it sounds to question it, I thought that if this was to happen I'd have more of a reaction to it. it's like I simply, didn't care. Which is bizarre considering my strong feelings for her, and the knowledge that she has feelings for me.

I'm sure most people would probably say "why does this concern you? This is amazing, you're growing and you're happy! Why are you questioning it!?" But as I say, I'm still learning. I know my lack of reaction is a good thing (detachment/ letting go assumedly) but im still confused as to why?

Anyway guys, I'd love a little casual insight, if anyone else has experienced this kind of indifference,  even when you get what should feel like bad news?

Thanks in advance x