sunny wrote:

I posted a little about this before, but there are things I'm wondering when it comes to taking action. I know that eventually your specific person will reach out to you, but if you decide to reach out first, are things pretty much guaranteed to go well if you are feeling good about it? I created a situation where I'm not "allowed" to contact my person, so normally things would not go well. I'm not looking to contact my person to try to change anything. Just to reach out. I only feel good feelings towards my person. But maybe that is trying to change things. What do you guys think?

I think the answer to that question is a little bit tricky, because you don't only create with your thoughts, but also with your beliefs and expectations. And even your post shows that you have an expectation that it wouldn't go so well. Sometimes it's hard to tell which expectations you hold and even harder to get rid of it. Maybe your past of least resistance would be to let your person contact you?

I agree with sanshi. If you do reach out make sure you are in a place where you are ok with getting or not getting a message back. I did that once with my guy and was really surprised to get such a positive response because I was grateful either way. But a lot of people are not in that place and it can be tricky.