The title of this thread is something I saw a lot when I first discovered the LOA and manifesting back exes or specific people, or situations and I'm starting to see why that's a crock of ish. I don't believe the universe is biased at all, it doesn't have an opinion on what you think about if it's good or bad. Like if I left my bike somewhere and focused all my energy on the fear someone will snap my lock on it and take it, goodbye bike! I doubt the universe would think "Oh, that's not the right thing to happen to her". So why do these articles claim you can manifest a specific person or someone who is "better" for you. This reasoning defeats me, I have manifested toxic relationships with many people because at one point I absolutely loathed my existence, I attracted people into my life who would validate this, not once did the universe go "Oh, can't have that. Have this". I didn't get better people into my life until I learned how great I am and I deserve to be treated well, good people flowed in, just like the rest of us these people have their flaws but not once did the universe say "here's a perfect person". I'm sorry if this tangent makes no sense, lack of sleep and medication makes Stacey a crazy rambler. I feel as if my guy is right for me, he is everything I've desired in a man, apart from the past but that's irrelevant and I manifested that, why would the universe tell me I'm wrong? I'm just starting to think the people who say you can't do it or say there's some stipulation gave up on their desire and assumed it as fact. We can do it, we can do anything. 

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