You create your reality in its entirety, no one else! If you are not creating or drawing bad things to you, they WILL NOT happen! So stop worrying! The key is to be just as secure and independent as you were when you were single. Of course some things will change when it comes to this, but how you view yourself shouldn't. Don't make him the source of your happiness -- it's up to YOU to keep YOU happy. You are worthy of an amazing relationship with him. And because you desire it, it is meant to be yours.

Thank you to everyone who has responded! You guys are so right, I also know I give better advice than I take myself sometimes. I am going to focus on all of the positive aspects of him and let the negative ones go. i know that you get more of what you focus on and nobody is perfect. i know he has been trying hard this time around. calling me and being more attentive when he is not with me. finding ways to make time for me. everything that i had imagined he would do. i have always had this too good to be true attitude i guess which is why i have attracted so many negative events in my life. i am trying super hard to change all of that. i seem to be able to focus more when i am on my own, so i will look at the time of him being away for school as me time, and not focus on all the things he could be doing without me. thanks for the reassurance guys!!!!