It means that the easiest thing to do is stop everything. And then start again. By inventing a new story. And telling that story over and over again until you believe it. And when you believe it, you will see that story unfolding in your life.

I'm full of fears... please let me know what should I do. O need someone to chat with..

beautifulmesss wrote:

Hisoneanonly, first , u need to stop thinking abt all the bad things he told you, take a deep breath and relax , when u visualize think of all the things abt him you love, all the good times u had together, for now just focus on good , it will make u smile and FEEL happy u want to get into the FEELING of the good times u had together, try hard NOT to focus on what he says right now , go to bed with good feelings NOt worry and stress, it will create more worry and stress , noone here can do it for u , this is for u to do u have been told how now FOCUS  on what u r being told to do , ignore what he says .. ignore what other ppl say , this is your life u create what u want , u will only make it worse if u keep freaking out everyday. if other ppl dont support what u want dont tell them , keep it yur little secret , imagine kissing him, laying on his shoulder while u sleep and IMAGINE HOW good that feels and sleep with that thought , THINK every morning when u wake up of all the things u r grateful for .. not just abt him but all the things in your life u love and are grateful for , yur legs that walk, your eyes that see, your job, your home , your car, all day notice things u r grateful for , say ty ty ty to the universe , notice the flowers, the grass the trees the birds .. anything everything that gives u some joy say thank you for it .. just start from there , be happy smile at everyone u meet , ppl will smile back and it will make u feel good .. you got this!!

Hi beautifulmess,
      You gave me a big support thankyou does these helps to get him back to me again? I've screenshotted this so I can read it and reminds me everyday. Is it possible for him to come back?
 

LovingLight wrote:

Anything is Possible.. But every time you doubt and ask if he is going to come back you take two steps back instead of going forward.

You have already got all the advice you can get dear... Let him be - Do the visualizations/affirmations and enjoy your life... He will show up when both of you are ready!


 

Hi lovinglight, thanks for your advice should i still keep doing rs/ri? I dont know how will it work in situation like this..i keep on finding evidence for him not loving me anymore. It hurts. Idk what should i do at this very mo. I dont feel right with doing anything. Right before this time, the breakups we had a past 2 times he would still care bout me. But this time,i really didnt see anything..except for him called me last week and we talked nicely. Just dont know what happen these days.. urgh.

If he can change his mind.. it will right?

Cherished wrote:

The thing is, RS and RI are about sending loving, beautiful, high vibrational energy out.. And at the moment you don't have access to those feelings. So what you need to do is clean up those thoughts you have. Look at the thoughts that are upsetting you, and try to change the thought to something slightly better. So  you fear he won't come back. Instead try to focus on thinking "I have manifested him back before, I can certainly do it again when I relax and start believing." Does that feel a little better? List all of your fears and try to make them feel a little better. Reach for relief!

It sounds so peaceful. It makes me believe when i think so. Does listing them attracts them?