Havefaith91 wrote:

If it makes you feel badly then stop!! Do not feel anxious when you don't check your loves fb. You need to live in the reality that what you want is yours. If that person was yours you wouldn't stalk their Facebook would you? Find some security within yourself because you can do this! What you want is yours! Calm your fears when you get them. Change them. You think a bad thought about what is going on with fb tell yourself it means nothing. You guys are in a healthy and beautiful relationship. You love each other. Your relationship is full of trust. You have no need to fb stalk this person. Be happy now!! Best of luck to you. Have faith because you got this!!!

BTW when I start to doubt I go to YouTube and search the loa club. They have amazing videos with wonderful messages. Favorite of mine is chapter 29 or 30. The one that says where's my stuff? Sorry on my phone I can't copy and paste link right now. Hope you check it out and I hope it reassures you. Listen to the message. You got this!!!!😆😆😆😆

Thank you, thank you, thank you for your words!!!!  I know I can do this, I'm working on little challenges to stop salking her and also I'm working on my self love, it will take some time but I'm working on me.

Today I feel more calm, maybe because I wrote here or maybe I'm tired of stalk her like it happends me a couple of months ago, I need to trust in the universe. 

Thank you for the sugestion, I will check the videos 

Last edited by Kavik (10/28/2016 4:55 pm)

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I sometimes think people put too much emphasis on Facebook and what being friends with people means.

I've loads of male Facebook friends. I'm a big football fan and I talk to them about it. Some of them add me following discussion about topics in my master's degree.

None of this means I fancy them or vice versa. I only see this clearly with hindsight as I used to make myself ill over who my ex was friends with or talking to. They all faded away in any case.

I've one male friend who asked me for relationship advice. Not all Facebook friends are potential conquests.

You're right, the problem is the insecurity that some of us feel

jensherratt wrote:

Kavik wrote:

jensherratt wrote:

​I think my boyfriend knew I was stalking his facebook because he removed me so I thought. Turned out it was his ''girlfriend'' (rebound relationship) who removed me and she removed LOADS of other people as well. I told myself this because friends were removed who he himself wouldn't have removed,  and I knew if it had been him he would have removed me AGES before I got removed. It doesn't matter now because we're back together but stalking on facebook or any other types of social media is something you shouldn't do because it does bring you down

I'm happy you are toguether 

I know I don't have to do it but it's like a need that became from my insides and it's hard to control it.

Thank you
​I know the feeling. I was looking at his facebook, twitter, Instagram, snapchat every single day. I was also checking to see if he'd been on his dating page. It would drive me insane.
 

 
How you did it stop stalking??