1 - Kavik
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the facebook thing...
I'm practicing LOA since a year and a couple of months ago, my reason to start was her, I steel was in contact with her when I start, but now I have more reasons to learn about it.
During this year I felt a lot of anxiety and saw her facebook many times a day, it was ridiculous, but then I start to feel tired for the anxiety so, I start to control myself, some days I don't see her facebook acount and other only see it once a day, it was a big progress and help me that she don't put much stuff in her facebook.
But recently I saw something that makes me feel scared and anxious again and start to see her facebook some times a day again, it's not like before, but I know I don't have to do it.
How do you handle this, what do you do to control yourselves and don't stalk yours SP?
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- Justine
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Re: the facebook thing...
When I was stalking his Facebook I would feel bad, so I just stopped.
Same with his snapchat stories and everything. It is just self control I guess ;)
- Kavik
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Justine wrote:
When I was stalking his Facebook I would feel bad, so I just stopped.
Same with his snapchat stories and everything. It is just self control I guess ;)
Thank you for your answer.
Well, when I don't see her facebook I start to feel anxious, then when I see that nothing chance I feel calm again :s
Maybe my biggest problem is that I spend so much time in my house, I'm looking for a job.
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You're trying to reassure yourself which shows that you don't trust the Universe entirely
- jensherratt
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I think my boyfriend knew I was stalking his facebook because he removed me so I thought. Turned out it was his ''girlfriend'' (rebound relationship) who removed me and she removed LOADS of other people as well. I told myself this because friends were removed who he himself wouldn't have removed, and I knew if it had been him he would have removed me AGES before I got removed. It doesn't matter now because we're back together but stalking on facebook or any other types of social media is something you shouldn't do because it does bring you down
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Re: the facebook thing...
I think my boyfriend knew I was stalking his facebook because he removed me so I thought. Turned out it was his ''girlfriend'' (rebound relationship) who removed me and she removed LOADS of other people as well. I told myself this because friends were removed who he himself wouldn't have removed, and I knew if it had been him he would have removed me AGES before I got removed. It doesn't matter now because we're back together but stalking on facebook or any other types of social media is something you shouldn't do because it does bring you down
I agree
my ex have a private fb but some post I can see and I see him on other date page often and I see him that after he is friend with new girls on fb too I have to stop this all and focus on my desire reality I want be with him already I dont want stalk and be sad and afraid never more. I want happy with him again. I want his good version back ..but it is hard dotn go on his social pages..but these things he did maybe when we were together too. maybe he was bored so he went on this page but why..why must mans write with other girls when they have a relationship??
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I think my boyfriend knew I was stalking his facebook because he removed me so I thought. Turned out it was his ''girlfriend'' (rebound relationship) who removed me and she removed LOADS of other people as well. I told myself this because friends were removed who he himself wouldn't have removed, and I knew if it had been him he would have removed me AGES before I got removed. It doesn't matter now because we're back together but stalking on facebook or any other types of social media is something you shouldn't do because it does bring you down
I agree
Social media may have its good points but at times like this it can be a curse, you have got to stop worrying about who hes chatting to online, stop looking his page because its making you worry and that slows down your manifestation
We recieve exactly what we expect to recieve. - John Holland.
- Havefaith91
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If it makes you feel badly then stop!! Do not feel anxious when you don't check your loves fb. You need to live in the reality that what you want is yours. If that person was yours you wouldn't stalk their Facebook would you? Find some security within yourself because you can do this! What you want is yours! Calm your fears when you get them. Change them. You think a bad thought about what is going on with fb tell yourself it means nothing. You guys are in a healthy and beautiful relationship. You love each other. Your relationship is full of trust. You have no need to fb stalk this person. Be happy now!! Best of luck to you. Have faith because you got this!!!
BTW when I start to doubt I go to YouTube and search the loa club. They have amazing videos with wonderful messages. Favorite of mine is chapter 29 or 30. The one that says where's my stuff? Sorry on my phone I can't copy and paste link right now. Hope you check it out and I hope it reassures you. Listen to the message. You got this!!!!😆😆😆😆
"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
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You're trying to reassure yourself which shows that you don't trust the Universe entirely
But lattely I feel less doubts like before, it's more like a need to see her, to know what is she doing...
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Re: the facebook thing...
I think my boyfriend knew I was stalking his facebook because he removed me so I thought. Turned out it was his ''girlfriend'' (rebound relationship) who removed me and she removed LOADS of other people as well. I told myself this because friends were removed who he himself wouldn't have removed, and I knew if it had been him he would have removed me AGES before I got removed. It doesn't matter now because we're back together but stalking on facebook or any other types of social media is something you shouldn't do because it does bring you down
I'm happy you are toguether 
I know I don't have to do it but it's like a need that became from my insides and it's hard to control it.
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