What everyone is looking for is connection, the feeling of love and nurturing.  You want your SP because of that connection you have with them.  Love is a connection in consciousness.  And everything is materialised out of your consciousness.  So, practise visualising and feeling the loving connection you have with them, they will pick that up and be drawn to you.  Keep sending out that unconditional love and love will find its way back to you, in whatever form, but it has to come because that is the (smoke) signal/transmission (lol) you're sending out.  Sit in the bliss of that loving state with yourself too and then relax and let your good come to you.