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So the stories goes that a month ago when my love an I broke up he invited me to go camping with his friends. So i saw ther an amazing opportunity to reconnect. The trip was supossed to be this weekend but today i logged into facebook and saw thta one of his friends uploaded a picture of the tents (no people just the tents, so i dont know if he is there or not) so i kinda freaked out and texted " hey! whats up? the trip is still on?" he has been online but hasnt answered. The trip was not suppossed to happen till this saturday so it caught me by surprise. I felt anger so im trying to stay positive because i just got the flu and have an exam tomorrow so if it was today i couldnΒ΄t go anyways.
I asked the universe to give me signs that im going through the right path this week, i asked for butterflies and i saw two, then i asked for blue hearts and i saw them in the shapes of the clouds and in a group conversation in WhatsApp. Maybe this is the Universe saying i should not give up and this was not my time to meet him yet. A part of me is moved by my anger saying that the more impossible it seems the better is going to be when i have it, i have asked the universe to put me in the path of less resistance i dont wnat to give up yet, but it hurt. Any advice?
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The universe isn't telling you anything. You asked for blue hearts and you got them, because you had no resistance. It has nothing to do with the guy, it was an independent manifestation. What you want to attract is completely up to you. There is no higher authority that is telling you what you should go for and on what you should give up. The moment a desire is activated within you, you know that it is possible, else you wouldn't have that desire.
It isn't worth it to be angry. You can't change it anymore, right? You can create your future and your power lies in the now, so why staying in anger and creating what you don't want? Find thoughts that feel better until you feel so good that you can think about the future relationship with your guy and feel good about it.
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Sanshi wrote:
The universe isn't telling you anything. You asked for blue hearts and you got them, because you had no resistance. It has nothing to do with the guy, it was an independent manifestation. What you want to attract is completely up to you. There is no higher authority that is telling you what you should go for and on what you should give up. The moment a desire is activated within you, you know that it is possible, else you wouldn't have that desire.
It isn't worth it to be angry. You can't change it anymore, right? You can create your future and your power lies in the now, so why staying in anger and creating what you don't want? Find thoughts that feel better until you feel so good that you can think about the future relationship with your guy and feel good about it.
Β Hey! thank you so much. he replied my text saying he was very sorry, they did the trip last weekend without me and that he couldnt tell me because he just didnt know how to (like if he was scared or too early to see me again). I manifested this because of my resistance, i had negative thoughst about him not being able to make choices. Im going to think only positive things from him from now on, but right now im going to focus more in being happy so that no outside bad news can hit meΒ
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Sanshi said the super correct thing....signs are what we manifest coz we have no resistance towards it.....in your case...There were situations very similar to me, and I always reacted....reacted and reacted....now after 6 months I realize, I should have RESPONDED not reacted.....but love do come with anger, jealosy, and RESTSTANCE....It does....always imagine "how would u have reacted if he was just a normal friend" would u get angry if he forgot to mention something? No right? Treat him that way and see the difference.....I reacted to all the actions by my love and actually created the situation I am in right now, but with a man friend of mine whom I am very fond of, I never ever have any issue if he cancels a meet/ or forgets to inform something....coz there is no resistance....today I am one of his most special person....with our lovers we are so so so involved that we consider them a part of us which cannot operate without us (thats what we feel sometime).....leave it out...be a peace with yourself and him....he will come back to u.....always!!