I am new to forum and I found this site through YouTube after a break up 3months ago.  We were together for 3 years and were in love , but got lazy towards the end and complacent. She wanted me to marry her and I was just taking my time.  I stop courting her.  She broke up and I don't blame her.  I am now focusing on being me and being positive.  About 3 weeks ago I missed her so much that I went online to see what I can do to get over the sad feeling and came across Veronica's page.  She talked about forgetting the past and think all the positive.  I enjoyed the video so much that I signed up for email coaching.  I sent her an email and she responded promptly and told me to visualize.  20 min after I read her email I saw her car on freeway.  I acted as if I didn't see her.  She changed lanes to get right behind me and followed me for about 5mi before exiting.   An hr later she called my business partner and gave her a patient referral since we are in medical sales.   My partner called me and told me that my ex called her for referral and that was weird since  she never gives us referral.  It's usually the other way around.  The next day my partner called my ex to follow up with patient, and sure enough the ref feral was not real.  My partner thinks it was her way of reaching out to me.   I won't text because in last 3montjs I texted her and she would respond right away but kept it short with me.  Veronica has helped me be more calm and not worry so much about outcome and just keep visualizing and do focus wheel.  I'm not really sure how to do RS.  I see her car more now.  I saw her few times but she didn't see me.   Veronica told me to not contact her and let her come to me.  I am a confident male with great job and just about to launch a new company and having fun with my kids and. Friends.  I have women calling and chasing me but I'm not interested.   Last night while I was sleeping I heard a special text tone I have for my ex and it felt so real.  It went off several times.  I got up thinking she texted but it was just a dream.  I have faith that she will contact me but sometimes it's hard.  I just have to focus on all the good things that's happening in my life.