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10/20/2016 11:39 am  #1


Why you're not seeing results

A lot of people get really impatient and they lose faith quickly when they don't see results in a short space of time.

You could be slightly doubtful, lacking confidence, not trusting the universe enough, you're not aligned with what it is you've asked for......

​You may think I am positive. I have no doubt. I do trust.
​But are your actions backing that up?

​You want to manifest an ex back or a relationship with a specific person?
​You ask, visualize, meditate get in a good mood but then you go on social media and you stalk their profile, you see they've become friends with someone else and you look at their profile. The person you desire might be in a relationship with someone else so you stalk their profile. You might look at Facebook, Twitter, Instagram. Check up on who their following. Would you really do that if you were in a relationship with that person? No. Of course you wouldn't because you'd trust them and you'd love them.

​How are you towards other people? If you were in this amazing relationship with the person you desire, you'd be happy. Full of love and joy. You wouldn't be jealous of other people's relationships. You'd be so happy and grateful for your own relationship.

​A lot of people after a break up tend to slouch about in shitty clothes, they make no effort with their looks. Their diet might change, they either comfort eat or under eat - if you were in this relationship, you wouldn't do that. You'd be making an effort with your looks (I'm not saying you have to wear tons of make-up or designer clothes) but you would make yourself look nice in a way that you're comfortable with and would happy to go out with.

​What I'm trying to say is 'act as if' is a huge part of LOA that helps your desires manifest

​This is my experience. When I discovered my boyfriend no longer wanted to be with me, I was sad, lonely, depressed and I stopped eating and was heavily drinking. I was spending the day moping and feeling sorry for myself. When I was working, I would spend the whole day in my PJs. Hair looked a mess, didn't shower, didn't even open my curtains. Just sat around watching **** TV (cos lets face it, there's nothing on worth watching) and then one day, I remembered that years ago someone had told e about LOA. I really did my research. I would spend ages just learning as much as I possibly could. I realised that I manifested everything that had gone wrong and my actions were adding energy to that. I was single miserable and my boyfriend was out having fun and got with someone else who was on the same vibrational level as him. I said '**** it' I'm not gonna care about that I'm too focused on myself. I woke up, did my daily rituals, gratitude, meditation etc, then went to work and after that I would sometimes, go and see family, sometimes I'd go for a long walk (I do that almost every day now in the morning - so fun) and I really felt better about myself. Before I knew it, he contacted me, said despite everything that had happened he missed me and wanted to see me again and we got back together very quickly I know realise that I manifested the relationship. I manifested the break up. I even manifested him removing from facebook but I also manifested him back.

​I know it's human nature to feel sorry ourselves when we don't get what we want or something goes wrong but please TRUST ME you have to get into the mindset that you already have your desires. There are so many other people say this and there wouldn't be so many people saying this if it wasn't true. You can't focus on the current reality. You can't think, oh why has It not happened yet? Where the **** is it?
​Doing these things will slow down the process. I'm actually glad about what went wrong because without those '****' times I would have never reconnected my self with LOA.

​If you have doing all the techniques for a really long time, keep going and DO NOT GIVE UP.
Quitters don't succeed in anything. Other than lack.

​If I told you I am a magic witch and I will make your dreams come in 30 days guaranteed, you would be happy because you'd know it was going to happen. Well that is what acting as if is like. Same as letting go. You KNOW it's going to happen so you have no reason to worry or doubt it because you know it's there.

I hope this helps.


We recieve exactly what we expect to recieve. - John Holland.  
 

10/20/2016 1:12 pm  #2


Re: Why you're not seeing results

I love your post. Thank you much needed advice 😊

 

10/20/2016 4:21 pm  #3


Re: Why you're not seeing results

I love this, I've been guilty of stalking online in the past, it's waaaaay too easy to get caught up in the current reality. I'm also guilty of not looking after myself, I've got no shame in admitting I've let myself go dwelling on lack. Thanks for sharing. I needed to be reminded of whats important. 

Last edited by Staceylouuu91x (10/20/2016 4:23 pm)


It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It. 
 

10/20/2016 5:02 pm  #4


Re: Why you're not seeing results

Thank you!!! you makes me feel inspired. I forgot about myself for a long time and now I'm trying to put my life on feet. 

How much time takes you to get him back? 

Last edited by Kavik (10/20/2016 5:04 pm)

 

10/21/2016 3:26 am  #5


Re: Why you're not seeing results

Kavik wrote:

Thank you!!! you makes me feel inspired. I forgot about myself for a long time and now I'm trying to put my life on feet. 

How much time takes you to get him back? 

​Few months


We recieve exactly what we expect to recieve. - John Holland.  
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10/21/2016 4:51 am  #6


Re: Why you're not seeing results

jensherratt wrote:

​What I'm trying to say is 'act as if' is a huge part of LOA that helps your desires manifest

The more I think about it the less I like the term "acting as if", because the term itself comes from the thought that lack exists. It's not here, therefore I have to act as if it were here, so that it can come to me. But that's not accurate. It already IS here. Your thoughts are as real as your physical world, they are just less practiced. If people could embody this, everything would become so much easier for them.


Kavik wrote:

How much time takes you to get him back?

I asked that question myself in the past, but why is this even an issue? This question alone is an indicator that you are more focused on what is than on what you want, else you would be satisfied with your imagination and you wouldn't care how long it takes. And then it could happen fast.


"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
 

10/21/2016 5:20 pm  #7


Re: Why you're not seeing results

jensherratt wrote:

Kavik wrote:

Thank you!!! you makes me feel inspired. I forgot about myself for a long time and now I'm trying to put my life on feet. 

How much time takes you to get him back? 

​Few months

Oh, contratulations!! 

 

10/21/2016 5:23 pm  #8


Re: Why you're not seeing results

Sanshi wrote:

I asked that question myself in the past, but why is this even an issue? This question alone is an indicator that you are more focused on what is than on what you want, else you would be satisfied with your imagination and you wouldn't care how long it takes. And then it could happen fast.

You're right, I'm trying to think different but somethimes I feel like I want tips to go faster :s 

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10/21/2016 6:03 pm  #9


Re: Why you're not seeing results

Kavik wrote:

jensherratt wrote:

Kavik wrote:

Thank you!!! you makes me feel inspired. I forgot about myself for a long time and now I'm trying to put my life on feet. 

How much time takes you to get him back? 

​Few months

Oh, contratulations!! 

Thank you
 


We recieve exactly what we expect to recieve. - John Holland.  
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10/21/2016 7:00 pm  #10


Re: Why you're not seeing results

Kavik wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

I asked that question myself in the past, but why is this even an issue? This question alone is an indicator that you are more focused on what is than on what you want, else you would be satisfied with your imagination and you wouldn't care how long it takes. And then it could happen fast.

You're right, I'm trying to think different but somethimes I feel like I want tips to go faster :s 

The best and only tip to get things fast is to focus on the wanted side of them most of the time.


"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."

Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
 

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