You know being someone who finally knows how loa works, I need to be honest with you. The only person who is getting in your way is yourself. You can visualize, meditate, script and if you are doing all that expecting an outcome then you will not be satisfied. You are doing those things to make you happy. I met so  many motivational speakers in real life who speak about the law of attraction and they all say the same thing. That you are in charge of raising your vibration and changing your life through changing the way you see things.You say it is hopeless, then it is hopeless. But you seem too reliant on the outcome that you need to be happy with yourself first and just look the other way. I am not saying to give up, just do not make it the center of your focus because you are your focus. He is speaking with you, you have an advantage, just look the other way.

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holistichealing wrote:

You know being someone who finally knows how loa works, I need to be honest with you. The only person who is getting in your way is yourself. You can visualize, meditate, script and if you are doing all that expecting an outcome then you will not be satisfied. You are doing those things to make you happy. I met so  many motivational speakers in real life who speak about the law of attraction and they all say the same thing. That you are in charge of raising your vibration and changing your life through changing the way you see things.You say it is hopeless, then it is hopeless. But you seem too reliant on the outcome that you need to be happy with yourself first and just look the other way. I am not saying to give up, just do not make it the center of your focus because you are your focus. He is speaking with you, you have an advantage, just look the other way.

I have not made him the center of my focus but obviously it hurts when the one who used to love you so much, admire so much is now with someone else.  I thought I am very special to him and witnessing contrast of it aches my heart. I have been positive so long nothing working out. In fact when I get extremely happy something bad happens to me right the next moment
I thought I knew loa. But I keep getting proved wrong . (cry)

Sanshi wrote:

Scarlet Angel wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Were you all the time consistant with your focus and feeling good? I guess not. So your vibration was a bit wobbly all the time, but you managed to wobble more in the direction of what you want, so he came back into your life, but still with contrasting experiences, because of the wobble. I can't tell you if it's the right or wrong choice to give up, but I (Peanut Gallery) would say that it's the wrong time to give up. You have come so far, you have grown. You managed your vibration so far that he came back in your experience. It's just a little adjustment needed. Don't ruin it now with giving the What Is your undivided attention. What is it that you want and why do you want it? Answer those questions over and over again when you feel yourself drawn too much into physical reality. It really doesn't matter what you see now. Everything can and will change, if you can manage to not observe it.

  I hardly give him importantce be honest when I actually started loving my life so much. Since the time I have joined the forum. I felt more positive than negative regarding my relationship. I thought everything is working now and the moment I started flying on my wings happiness I fell down again (cry)
It has been so long now since our break up but now I feel nothing is working for me . I have had beautiful experiences in this journey but today I completely broke into tears. There are so many other incidents to happening which keep breaking me. How do I recollect myself

Make feeling better the most important thing for now. I broke down crying yesterday (not because of a guy) and within an hour I replaced my sadness with gratitude and I felt as good as before without anything changing in my physical reality. You can choose which feeling you want to experience. It's just takes a little training. And every breakdown is a chance to train getting back into alignment. Go off the subject, pamper yourself and take you some time to get back on your feet. Focus on the good things and everything will look differently tomorrow.

Yeah trying I just want everything to settle for me soon. I deserve to be happy, deserve get my things back, deserve to be successful in all fields, I deserve him more than anyone else because I always loved him unconditionally inspite of he hurting me non intentionally. All that I deserve is with someone else now .  (cry)
I will lift myself up but right now everything around me seems dark.  Can't see positivity anywhere at present moment. Don't know how to feel good ease about the now.
(cry)
 

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