barbidoll wrote:

Everyone has an opinion   but remember the only opinion that matters is yours.  Believe  feel calm and good      just over the weekend  a woman I work with got a call from an ex from eight years ago    he called to tell her he wants her back and  to get to him as he wanted to buy her an engagement ring      yes after 8 years     from nothing to everything  

Woooow, amazing story. Thanks for sharing.

Thank you for yours answers. Sanshi I want ask you. You wrote that
I remember Bashar saying in one of his videos that obstacles are there to test if your new vibration is really what you want. He says something like if you react to the old circumstances differently it means that you have truly changed and your reality will change. If you react to the old circumstances in the old way you have not changed. It's like a safety mechanism: "Do you really want to change your reality? (Y/N)". If you freak out you click the No...I want ask you that a universe will always test me? Because I always have a situation when he test me or what and I try react differently but its hard. I was in my ex with saturday. After he again dont write or call.. I see him today he go to his grandma  but I know that he saw me and he dont stopped or dont say hello... at saturday evening he call me out and now again ignored.. I wrotr him today because he have a birthday so he wrote me thank you and its all. Why he cant call me a celebarate with him..
.I do something wrong..Maybe this my post is wrong too because I have a react differently and ignor that he ignor me.. but  I  always go out when he call me because I want be with him and when he call me so I think that he say he want a relationship and because that I always go with him.. He.is  very horny when he with me but I stop him and I dont have sex with him but if I dont stopped him so we should be asex and I have a felt a girl for a sex... I must change it and when he will call me out evening sometimes so I dont go because this dont attract go back when he dont must struggle with me... but why a universe always test me. A universe test every person?

Laura1234 wrote:

Thank you for yours answers. Sanshi I want ask you. You wrote that
I remember Bashar saying in one of his videos that obstacles are there to test if your new vibration is really what you want. He says something like if you react to the old circumstances differently it means that you have truly changed and your reality will change. If you react to the old circumstances in the old way you have not changed. It's like a safety mechanism: "Do you really want to change your reality? (Y/N)". If you freak out you click the No...I want ask you that a universe will always test me? Because I always have a situation when he test me or what and I try react differently but its hard. I was in my ex with saturday. After he again dont write or call.. I see him today he go to his grandma but I know that he saw me and he dont stopped or dont say hello... at saturday evening he call me out and now again ignored.. I wrotr him today because he have a birthday so he wrote me thank you and its all. Why he cant call me a celebarate with him..
.I do something wrong..Maybe this my post is wrong too because I have a react differently and ignor that he ignor me.. but I always go out when he call me because I want be with him and when he call me so I think that he say he want a relationship and because that I always go with him.. He.is very horny when he with me but I stop him and I dont have sex with him but if I dont stopped him so we should be asex and I have a felt a girl for a sex... I must change it and when he will call me out evening sometimes so I dont go because this dont attract go back when he dont must struggle with me... but why a universe always test me. A universe test every person?

It's not really that the universe tests you. You are the universe. I see it this way right now: Your current reality is a given. Reality can't just vanish, so there will always be a reality and this reality contains things you don't like. These things have a different vibration than the things you want and when you look at them you vibrate at their frequency. When you look away and imagine the things you want, you vibrate on the opposite frequency so to speak. You could call that a test, because it would be much easier, if there were no reality to look at after you have come to know what you want. But reality is there and it gives you a chance to grow by presenting you the things you don't want. When you understand LoA, you see that it doesn't matter how big the obstacle seems, because there is no obstacle. You wouldn't care, if someone would give you an imagined 1000$ or an imagined 100000$, right? You can't buy anything from both of it. It's the same with the obstacles.

Everything that appears is a reflection of your past vibration. So what you see in your reality now really doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is what you feel, what you think and what you talk about in this Now moment.

I wouldn't say that you did something wrong. You really can't do anything wrong. But in a sense, you are right. You are heading in the direction of the unwanted by telling it how it is in your post. The good thing is that you can decide every second to turn around. You just have to be persistent with the direction you choose.

You are the creator and you can choose how to go about situations. There will be things that you will not like, but this world is filled with many vibrations and so you have the choice of whether to let it impact you or not. Remember that your thoughts impact everything, so about those sick days, there is more than just germs involved, negative thinking causes a weaker immune system. I have been around lots of people with fevers and have not gotten sick because I believe myself to be healthy. 

I think you need to relax. you are doing what i did when i first started practicing loa three years ago. i came across a forum because i wanted my ex back. it was everything i had ever dreamed of but my mind would not let me stop questioning everything. You have to get into the vibration of feeling good. Be thankful for everything that you have at this current moment. even if he is not with you right at this moment. you said unfortunately it was not from him. Be appreciative that you have a new friend! Someone likes you and wanted to become friends with you!!! This is a great thing! It is great that you now know a way to change all of your circumstances!!! Watch some of the videos from law of attraction club channel on youtube. there are plenty of videos and hopefully this will help explain things a little more and help you relax. But right now i think you are really overthinking everything. You can do this! Let it go and live life as if you already have him back now! Be grateful!