Well, whatever you focus on more energy you give to it. Just start giving energy to you and not her. Once you start becoming the best version of yourself she will be captivated with your awesome self. But if you keep focusing on her then she will grow more higher  and you will always appear  needy to her. Stop checking her whatsapp profile. What if one day you wake up and surprisingly see a sweet message from her? That feeling is so amazing. So I would say Love your life and know it's a law she has to has to come to you. No exception. So why not be happy with that fact start doing some self work and enroll into learning something or traveling and all. You can do it

Scarlet Angel wrote:

Well, whatever you focus on more energy you give to it. Just start giving energy to you and not her. Once you start becoming the best version of yourself she will be captivated with your awesome self. But if you keep focusing on her then she will grow more higher and you will always appear needy to her. Stop checking her whatsapp profile. What if one day you wake up and surprisingly see a sweet message from her? That feeling is so amazing. So I would say Love your life and know it's a law she has to has to come to you. No exception. So why not be happy with that fact start doing some self work and enroll into learning something or traveling and all. You can do it

yes i agree with all what you said but my question is , shall i make a move or wait because it has been 5 months since the break up and one month since she removed the block and last contact was two months ago 

 

Sanshi wrote:

It never matters what you do. The only thing that matters is how you feel about the subject.

Thank you so much for that. Helped me too. 

I'm in the same situation. My ex contacted me randomly a few times during the summer and I recently understood from the universe that it was the perfect occasions to tell him how I feel. But I was too scared and didn't do anything. Until I was sent for a few days to his city, we had dinner together and it was perfect. I asked the universe for guidance, two days later, I had an "inspired thought" as I understood that I had to do it while talking to a friend. I have the confidence that I have to open my heart to him, and I feel so good about it. It makes me happy to think about it and to be honest I don't care what his answer is because I know the universe wants me to be honest. 

Although I don't feel comfortable about reaching out first to him. So this is why I'm not doing it. I want him to contact me so I'll understand that it is the universe saying "go. Do it now". 

I've been in your situation Sandman and I think you should see that as the beginning of your manifestation. If you don't feel a 100% confident don't do it. Wait until you feel entirely ready. If you're asking yourself the question I think it is a sign that you're not ready. Or that it is not an inspired action or thought.