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Hopeandfaith · 10/12/2016 2:21 am

Me n my boy frnd of 8 yrs broke up abt 6 mnths ago..didn't talk for few mnths but now we started talking just casually.its a log distance so hvnt seen him in 6 months.and also there was another girl involved due to which this hapnd.i am.still hopelessly in love with my guy and want to marry him.had imagined my life with him
Tried to be positive...today when we spoke after 3 months he said tht tht girl and he don't hv much involvement now..so tht made me.little happy..but he also said tht his school frnds r trying to play cupid between him and one of his school frnds...that got mw a little sad
I don't know what m supposed to do..m.glad tht this girl is going away but also worried that they might set him up with this other girl ( which he has said he doesn't want to)
M trying to remain positive,i write gratitude journals,affirmations n also visualise...but this makes me.a.little sad

Plz help ..I.love this guy too much..n he seemed normal talking to me but also spoke in a way that it's ok to move on..

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Hopeandfaith · 10/12/2016 2:24 am

I do feel that my faith and belief might have atleast got him away from.his girl who took him away from me( karma is a *****)
But also somewhat scared coz this girl his frnds r trying to set him up with was his school crush long long time ago...

tessy · 10/12/2016 4:38 am

As LOA says, do not focus on this version of reality. You are in a huge advantage position as he talks to you, 90% of us here are in NC or not getting a response, so be happy about it! He telling you about his life is a great thing isnt it? He was your BF for 8 years, you know him in and out. You must support him, be his pillar of strength, visualize him saying things you want him to say, be happy he is there for you no matter what the situation is, your friends trying to fix him with a girl proves nothing. You can get him back just keep your vibration up and appreciate the fact that you both are talking (even if its like friends) Many of us here are struggling to even get a text from them. Stay by his side and wish him well. Be a version of yourself where you love him enough to be beside him but respect yourself way too much to be always available. He will feel the shift in energies and be back. Stop being desperate as it attracts negativity You can do it..

Hopeandfaith · 10/12/2016 4:57 am

Thanks a lot Tessy..yes I know him in and out..today we spoke after a long time but still he did speak about whatever he is feeling right now...even I did..I am glad and thankful for that..
We also joked and I tried not at all to speak about our relationship..I want to strengthen our friendship first..I know he is the one for me..
I asked him if he is happy so he he said he is ok..so I know he is not over it yet too...same as I am..but I didn't ask anything further and tried to keep it casual..
I asked y didnt he call him all this time..so he is like even u didn't call...so I guess he was also expecting my call sometime
We spoke like friends but still I wnt to strengthen this so much that he realises what how much I hv and still wl support him..love him..and wait he says on his own..wl not force him anytime

Hopeandfaith · 10/12/2016 5:02 am

Also I had written in my scripting journal that he will randomly come to meet me the place where I stay so as too attend a medical conference (he is a surgeon)..so today he also mentioned about some of his frnds going to have a conference in January here where I stay but he might not b able to come
So I will try to visualise and manifest that he comes to attend it and meet me..m sure that things wl move forward if we get to meet since we live in different cities

Havefaith91 · 10/12/2016 7:38 am

I agree with teddy! Live as if he is already yours! Do not focus on this other girl it will bring her into your reality. You can have anything you want. You already attracted him talking to you. That is fantastic! Keep it up!!!

Hopeandfaith · 10/12/2016 8:16 am

Yes thanks both of u...I needed to hear something positive from someone going thru all of this..
I love this community..thanks Veronica ..some posts just lift u up when u r about to give up on ur faith
I am a physical therapist..and my patient today just walked in with a T-shirt printed "believe"
Got a smile on my face

Hopeandfaith · 10/17/2016 2:23 am

Today my to be mother in law called me...told me that this time her son was much calmer when she met him but didn't ask about me directly...( last time he had screamed and acted crazy whn asked about me whn we had recently broken up)...so she said he is getting better and I should give him some time and she feels positive about us...
So that really added to my energy too...
I just started reading 'the magic' and started the practise today and I get her call...I had also scripted this thing to happen in October that she wl call me and give me some positive news about him..how cool is that 😃
I already feel 'as if' and doesn't really feel like effort now....
Hold on people,things will turn in ur favour even before u know it..
Have faith and keep positive

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tessy · 10/17/2016 3:33 am

Hey thats awesome......You see to go straight to your marriage date lolzzzzzzzzz....but I am getting excited hearing your story....talking to his mom is so cool..........I used to ask my love to send me his family pics and once he did, till date I look at his mom's pic and send her so much love. If you love a person u love him with all his good and bad....I pray he walks in your life like te way u want and i feel he will.........just stay calm and positive.....I wish u well...

Hopeandfaith · 10/17/2016 4:58 am

Thanks a lot Tessy...u know when we both were trying to convince his parents for us ( his father was not agreeing for us) it was his mom who stood by me...even that time she did tell me to keep positive n then he finally agreed...so it's awesome even when both of ua have broken up...she's the one giving me positive vibes and asking me to keep up hope..
She is the best...we tried to convince his father for a good 4 yrs...it's unfortunate tht this hapnd..but if I stuck with her positivity tht time and even now m going to stick to it.i know we will be back together 😃 we are meant to be ..

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