Hey, Severis94! I truly hope that you're having a great evening despite the confusion in the situation that you're now experiencing! 😍😘

It must be so sad and hurtful to have known and have heard that from a friend most esp that that hearsay was comin from your person. I am terribly sorry to hear that. But here's what you could do in that scenario. ☺ KNOW YOUR WORTH AND YOUR VALUE AND DO NOT EVER ASSOCIATE YOURSELF AND YOUR VALUE TO THAT OF YOUR BOYFRIEND'S, you get what am saying? ☺ anything and everything a person is doing, thinking, feeling, acting, reacting and etc are all bcos of THEM/THAT PERSON and not really bcos of you so DO NOT TAKE IT SRSLY. ☺ The only reason you got "hurt and affected" is bcos the news that you've heard directly affected your EGO and NOT YOU. ☺ So be happy about that. Your ego just cant accept that he has no feelings for you any longer and that he ONLY likes you still. You cannot just simply put your attractiveness, your being lovable and your value to one person or even another. You just need to accept the harsh reality that that is your person's opinion and your feelings. You cannot control that in any other way. Accept that the way that it is as of now BUT also think and consider that it is not about you. It's about him and his feelings so you really have nothing to do about it and literally, you cannot "do" something to him directly/indirectly to convince him to change his feelings bcos that is already his and he has rights to it.

So for now, you just love yourself, accept the reality that he has said if he really did and move on with your life knowing that whatever happens, you'll be okay and is still loved cos you don't deserve to tie your worth on the same man or any man in particular. Believe that when the right time comes, if his love is true and if that is the will of God, he will come back in to your arms or better yet, a better man will be coming to you and to love you deeply as you deserve! 😍😘

You are such an awesomesauce, Severis94! You do not deserve to feel defeated nor suffering. ☺ just trust and believe in the process of life and love and very soon, you'll receive the gift of a lovely and lasting relationship you have been waiting and praying for! 😍😘

Once again, these are just my opinions and I would appreciate it if you pick up some pointers on here as much as I appreciate and respect it if you'll ignore these and still choose your path. The idea is, do whatever makes you feel good and start from there. 😍😘

Much love and light to you and good luck to your future endeavors!! 😍😘


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Severis94 wrote:

A friend told me that my bf told a friend that he likes me but he doesn't have the feelings for me.
What shall I do? I am crushed.
I know things can change but I need help. I don't wanna give up, but please help.

Havefaith91 wrote:

If you do not want to give up then don't! We all have bad days! You know you can attract him back into your life and have him be madly in love with you. You have to change how you are thinking and feeling right now! You can change this if that is what you really want! Imagine that same friend telling you that he is madly in love with you still and that being apart is driving him crazy!!! You can have him back if you want him back! I have faith in you!! You can do this!!!

God Havefaith91, ya are a sight for sore eyes!😀😀😀 Thank ya xD. I really appreciate this.

Last edited by Severis94 (10/12/2016 1:49 pm)