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The four agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
Don Miguel Ruiz wrote in this his book that people dont take anything personally.
" Whatever happens around you, don’t take it personally… Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves. All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in. When we take something personally, we make the assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.
Even when a situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you. What they say, what they do, and the opinions they give are according to the agreements they have in their own minds…Taking things personally makes you easy prey for these predators, the black magicians. They can hook you easily with one little opinion and feed you whatever poison they want, and because you take it personally, you eat it up….
But if you do not take it personally, you are immune in the middle of hell. Immunity in the middle of hell is the gift of this agreement."
So I have a question. He wrote opposite what learn loa? We know from loa that other people are our a mirrors and what they says or do things its because they only mirrored what is inside of me.. so how it is?
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Hmm. So when I will believe theory don miguel ruiz and some people will have bad behavior to me so I never dont change some inside me because I dont take personally?.. I dont think... Because we know that when we want attract ex back so we must change our beliefs etc and when every boy was bad to me so it mean that is something inside me what I must change ..when I will think that they are bad and I dont will take personally their behavior so I will still attract bad version this person....or not??...some other opinion on my quieston?
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Re: The four agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
I love his books so much. It's true that this part seems a little bit confusing.
In another book he wrote about love he said that we were creating our own reality and our own karma. That the universe was inside of us. If we do something wrong, we'll start to feel guilt, and then it is not the universe punishing us but we are instead punishing ourselves by attracting bad things from our bad energies.
Plus he also says that fear is the opposite of love, because fear is a negative feeling that makes us act in ways we wouldn't if we would feel only love for someone. And that love is the most powerful energy in the world and an action made out of love (and without fear) is always a good thing to do despite what we have in return (referring to the agreement about taking things personally)
Thought it was interesting.
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I still have to think about this and I have still a doubts..because for example sometimes I have a hard day or Im nervous and so I have a bad behavior to my family or friends. so how they create that Im bad to them? they cant take personally my behavior because Im not bad to them because they do something wrong....or when I meet somebody who is good to me and somebody else is bad. when I create all things and behaviors so when my vibrations will high so it means that every person will good to me , or not? but when one person is bad and else is good so I think that sometimes it matter how these people have a day etc and sometimes probably really we cant take all behavior other people personally.. Im confused from this ..
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Not everything that people write in books has to be true.. What do you prefer? Being a creator or being a victim?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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why all Loa teachers are contradict??"".People will love you. People will hate you. And none of it will have anything to do with you." Abraham Hicks... and a few days later I was read again that only we create a behavior other people to us and only we can change to people love us or hate....I really interested about LOA and I want know still even more but sometimes I dont want know nothing more because than Im confused.....
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