Update: after leaving a positive response on another post about past success and certain things that are working in my favor, I am feeling better. So this isn't meant to be looked at in a negative light, but I just love hearing people's input and of course I actively take advice as it's given. It's almost like my thoughts and feelings are my kids that have their own personalities. Some of them I know how to deal with, but some are a bit more unruly and I need a little bit of help addressing them. Make sense? 

I read the post in the forum guidelines about thinking before we post things, and I don't want this one getting me banned from the forum at all, it's just like I said before, each feeling/thought I have that has been "getting in the way" feels like it needs to be addressed differently and dealt with differently than the previous. But I do actively do the vibrational work to improve.  

This is definitely true! I would do the same and actually, I made action just last week to win my ex back. Things worked out pretty well -- at first. But eventually, I got tired of all the "actions" and "moving forward" since I felt during those times that I did everything to make things work with us, I have learned to see the bigger picture that he just loves me but his love wasn't enough to fix things between us. It is as if he is taking advantage of the fact that I am just there regardless of what he will or will not do. So I let him go and let him be and have decided and prayed that everything happens for a reason and I am totally okay now with what's happenin in my life. I know God has better plans for me.
I am not saying that this could happen to you too cos who knows right? What am trying to say is try pushing yourself to your limits and see where it goes. If it works for you and your person, thats great! If it doesnt, there's a lot better in store of you! Take a leap of faith. Do your best and give all your love WITHOUT expecting anything in return. At the end of the day, you'll feel if you're still good with the situation or if you think you'll be better off without him while believing that you have the best prince waiting for you out there. Good luck! 😍😘


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ShootingStar wrote:

I wonder why that coach said to move on....it's a bit weird to be honest, unless everything they say is a hoax or a lie to get customers. I say that because I don't know your story except that you say your ex is single, so it seems like there's no real reason to believe he's gone forever? At the end of the day, posting replies to people on this forum is hard because no one here wants to be the reason that anyone messes up their life, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that if he's single, why not call him ? Why not catch up, meet him for coffee maybe? I mean, people are not too complicated, they heal over time, they get over past hurt and they enjoy having attention and knowing that they are wanted or liked by other people. I think you should probably try to see if he's open to allowing you back in his life maybe....

ShootingStar wrote:

I wonder why that coach said to move on....it's a bit weird to be honest, unless everything they say is a hoax or a lie to get customers. I say that because I don't know your story except that you say your ex is single, so it seems like there's no real reason to believe he's gone forever? At the end of the day, posting replies to people on this forum is hard because no one here wants to be the reason that anyone messes up their life, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that if he's single, why not call him ? Why not catch up, meet him for coffee maybe? I mean, people are not too complicated, they heal over time, they get over past hurt and they enjoy having attention and knowing that they are wanted or liked by other people. I think you should probably try to see if he's open to allowing you back in his life maybe....

You and LCR520 make a good point. Well the reason I don't just reach out to him is that even though I know he's single, the breakup was ugly in the end. I had to do my healing (which I'm still doing) and the outside circumstances don't really look friendly for me to reach out to him, plus i had seen on social media that he immediately went back to flirting with/pursuing his friends, which was a fear of mine that he would do, even during the relationship because of my lack of confidence/him telling me he had crushes on his friends in the past. But these friends did hit on him/try to flirt during the relationship/would say not so nice things about me, or tell him it was annoying that we were constantly posting statuses on Facebook together on our dates. BUT his real friends, the ones that cared about him, were supportive of us, and liked me a lot, because they saw me as a nice person, who loved him, and it was good for him to finally be loved. A lot of these women in the past would walk all over him, allegedly, because he gave them the attention, bought them things, would wait on them hand and foot. So this is something that in the breakup process I had trouble forgiving and letting go of, and I have been praying for him, sending loving energy to him from time to time, and just asking God to watch over him and give him some clarity to see the truth, because in the end, the bad friends were who he stuck with. If we were to begin talking again, unless they made a change too, it wouldn't be the right time. There was growing to be done on both of our sides, but I know that he will see that, because he had kind of started to when we broke up. It's a process and I know how it feels dealing with these kinds of friends. So yeah that's why I haven't just reached out to him.  

Of course you will! Everybody does! Just take your time. Yup, have to be brutally honest. Really made "action" out of desperation, NEEDINESS and impatience. So poof! Voila! Didn't really work out for me. Hihih but boy was I glad to do those things last week. It gave me the clarity to really let go and let God and also, if it really is yours, it will come back. If it isn't, no problem since there's something better for me anyway. ☺ good luck on your endeavors! I wish you and your person all the best. Do whatever is best and would make you really happy in the long run. ☺😍😘


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Creeeeestal wrote:

Staceylouuu91x wrote:

http://www.applythelawofattraction.com/lettinggo-law-attraction/ 

Whenever I struggle I re-read this link, it's been helpful to me! 

I love this thank you!!!!!!! It's still all about releasing fear and doubt, and I've allowed the mixed messages to create fear and doubt within me. I'll rise above this I know it.  
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