I know some things are really painfull and hard to shift from. I used to hate myself and feel strong disqust, feel negative. But now I feel wonderfull almost 99% of the time. Once you begin to change for better, vibes become beautifull to everyone. Visualise and try tto feel as if he is already here but you DESERVE TO LOVE, TO BE LOVED AND TO BE THE BEST FOR YOU. This path is for you.

It took me a little while to get into a place where I could forgive my love and myself for how things played out between us. I found writing positive affirmations about myself and how he feels about me helped. Also, focusing on yourself is good too.  

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Staceylouuu91x wrote:

It took me a little while to get into a place where I could forgive my love and myself for how things played out between us. I found writing positive affirmations about myself and how he feels about me helped. Also, focusing on yourself is good too.  

Thank you. I get the feeling that I have to correct things with myself first before trying to attract my ex back. Not sure if it would work if I did both at once.

The thing with manifesting love is you've got to be happy and love yourself, otherwise you won't be aligned with your goal. You can't manifest a relationship you think'll make you happy if you're not on the same frequency as it. 
I know it's an awful feeling when you want to be with someone and you're not together but it's important you don't put your happiness onto another person, you're the person you'll spend the rest of your life with, you've just chosen to share your life with another person. Don't worry how long it'll take to manifest the relationship or how long it'll take to get into a place where you'll align with your desire, focus on doing things that make you feel better. The past doesn't matter, what's important is how you're feeling right now.

I got caught up in wallowing in self pity when my love left, I let myself go and didn't take good care of myself. I decided that I'm the most important person in my life and chose to do and focus on things that made me happy, I'll be sharing these experiences with him anyway but while I have this time between manifesting I'm working on being the best person I can be, for me and only me. Sorry if that tangent went on a bit, this is just something I've learnt over time, I hope it makes sense. 

It takes a little time to reach the place where u want to happy "mentally" this doesnt happen overnight.....losing someone you love is like losing a part of your life, the most important part......so it does take time, let it take the time, keep working on yourself and you will reach there. There will be constant self talks and talking with your ex in your mind but they will slowly fade away.....dont rush as u need to be happy, it will surely come and you will become a better person the moment the desperation stops. Heal yourself first and everything will fall in place.