First of all, if you mean by "preparing your story" the story how you haven't that girl in your life, please don't translate it. There is no point in telling us what was. You just reinforce what was by doing so. And your post don't sound like you are enjoying her not being in your life, so please don't talk about it. Talk about what you want instead.

"I'm unemployed at the moment, I have been unemployed for much time, I have a title, but I'm looking but can't find something for me..... 

That makes me feel frustrated and sad and I don't want to feel this way.... "

That's the problem. That's backwards. You think you need to find a job to feel better, but in reality you have to feel better to find a job. Don't make how you feel dependent on your circumstances. You can feel good regardless of how the world around you looks. You could be in jail, have nothing to eat and still feel good. However, I'm sure it's much easier to feel good in your situation.
What makes you feel bad are your thoughts that aren't aligned with the thoughts of your non-physical part. Try to find thoughts that feel better. The better a thought feels the more accurate it is.

You don't seem to know much about LoA. I would recommend to read "Ask and it is given" by Esther Hicks and really try to suck all the information in.

Sanshi wrote:

First of all, if you mean by "preparing your story" the story how you haven't that girl in your life, please don't translate it. There is no point in telling us what was. You just reinforce what was by doing so. And your post don't sound like you are enjoying her not being in your life, so please don't talk about it. Talk about what you want instead.

"I'm unemployed at the moment, I have been unemployed for much time, I have a title, but I'm looking but can't find something for me..... 

That makes me feel frustrated and sad and I don't want to feel this way.... "

That's the problem. That's backwards. You think you need to find a job to feel better, but in reality you have to feel better to find a job. Don't make how you feel dependent on your circumstances. You can feel good regardless of how the world around you looks. You could be in jail, have nothing to eat and still feel good. However, I'm sure it's much easier to feel good in your situation.
What makes you feel bad are your thoughts that aren't aligned with the thoughts of your non-physical part. Try to find thoughts that feel better. The better a thought feels the more accurate it is.

You don't seem to know much about LoA. I would recommend to read "Ask and it is given" by Esther Hicks and really try to suck all the information in.

thank you for the recomendations, Then I will post about what I whant and how I feel actually. 

I know that I have to feel good to get what I want, but how can I do that? I'm trying, I really do, but somethimes I don't know what to do to feel happy.... 

Thank you for the recomendation about the book, I will read it