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Nothing negative, just not sure how to approach this situation fully.Β
The man I'm attracting back into my life technically isn't an ex. We've not dated in person, we spoke through text and were working towards it but I got scared and the situation I feared manifested. I've come to terms with this, just finding it a little difficult sometimes to work out how I'm supposed to go about this situation. I don't want to go into the situation fully because I'm the type to dwell and annoy myself into a bad mood, should I focus on him getting back in contact with me first or the relationship Β I'm after? I can't contact him so that's off the table.
I know I'm making progress, just stumbling on a few things lately that aren't too clear, then setting myself back a bit, rinse and repeat.Β
Thanks.Β
Last edited by Staceylouuu91x (9/29/2016 10:51 am)
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What feels better to you? Choose what feels better to you and what is easier to believe. I guess you have less resistance towards getting back in contact. So maybe that would be the smartest thing to focus upon....and maybe I should take my own advice to heart. ;D
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Sanshi wrote:
What feels better to you? Choose what feels better to you and what is easier to believe. I guess you have less resistance towards getting back in contact. So maybe that would be the smartest thing to focus upon....and maybe I should take my own advice to heart. ;D
You should, it's good advice.Β
This is my first attempt at bringing someone back I've not bad personal, real life experiences with so some days it really feels like an alien process and obviously the mind can be a pain if it's not on your side.Β