"The secret of change is to focus all your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new."
Socrates

Just found a cite by Socrates that I saved on my computer before I even was into LoA so deeply. That's a pretty good summary of LoA, so I wanted to share it with you guys. I see many people here, including myself, fighting the old by focusing on the absence of their person and taking score too early. But the clue about LoA is to focus on what you want. There is no struggling or trying hard in focusing on what you want. It's effortless until you try to get away from the thing you don't want. So struggling and trying hard are good indicators for heading in the wrong direction. When you were little, you didn't say "I can't walk. That's sad, but I am where I am. I won't ever walk". You were fully focused on walking. You did real baby steps, but you never gave up and with time you got better and better. If you can manage to establish this crystal clear focus again and direct it on what you want instead on what you don't want, miracles can happen.