Is it trying to say to be aloof with your ex when they try to be in contact with you? In my situation my ex has started messaging me to which I too used to respond nicely.  So if I stop replying him won't it make him feel like regret as to why did he message me.?   I really worry whether am taking actions properly..  Anyone got to say anything.. Please I need you'll advice

Last edited by Scarlet Angel (9/28/2016 8:55 am)

Scarlet Angel wrote:

Is it trying to say to be aloof with your ex when they try to be in contact with you? In my situation my ex has started messaging me to which I too used to respond nicely.  So if I stop replying him won't it make him feel like regret as to why did he message me.?   I really worry whether am taking actions properly..  Anyone got to say anything.. Please I need you'll advice

Hey, Scarlet Angel! Sorry it took time for me to see this. Personally, if you're used to responding to him nicely, then do it if it is out of LOVE AND WANT and NOT of NEED AND DESPERATION. Yes, altho it helps to make him feel what he'll lose if he won't come to his senses and move things forward with you, sometimes, all you need to do is follow your heart. I have tried this for good ol' 2days and guess what? Am back with my man now. ☺ and we are a lot better! Not bcos I followed this ALL entirely but bcos I knew my worth, I trust and believe that i am worthy of him, his love and his trust and that I am worthy of this wonderful relationship that we now have. This, I guess, is the essence of this blog post. To not let anyone take control of your feelings simply put, if you love yourself enough, consider being positive. If you feel it's good to respond to him nicely, by all means, do it. If you feel it's good to not reply, then do it. As long as you respect yourself and your feelings, things will turn out fine. 😍😘