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Hey guys, I wanted to get my emotions out but in a positive environment so here I am. Lately I've just been feeling off. It's so hard when you're manifesting a specific person.
Honestly everything was going well and it still is in a way I guess. But sometimes I just can't help but get jealous sometimes. I wanna be his already. It's hard to talk to him in person cus I get so nervous around him. Sometimes he'll text me other days he won't contact for days. And I wanna respect his space too you know? I wanna know what goes through his mind about me (if only I had that as a superpower ;)). It's so hard to "let go" too when you have so much love and memories from them. I smile when I think about me and him. I really really love him guys π. He's not an ex-boyfriend or anything for those wondering. To be honest I feel so under appreciated too sometimes. I'm very open minded and loving towards everyone. But I feel like he doesn't appreciate me sometimes. I don't wanna accept these negative feelings but as I'm typing these feelings I'm open to accept them now. I've just felt so jealous and I've just missed him. Even though I see him around its hard for us to talk on in person because he's such a serious person and I just get so nervous around him. He knows about my feelings for him because I confessed and he was so sweet and open about it but I'm just really lost in my mind right now. Thanks for reading guys! Any advice would be helpful
Last edited by Aisha (9/23/2016 10:05 pm)
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You can't rush a manifestation. When you feel the need to rush it, it's a great indicator that you are focused on the lack and that you aren't ready for your manifestation yet.
You say you feel not appreciated but do you appreciate yourself the way you want him to appreciate you? People reflect how we see ourself and their behaviour only affect you, if you have the same within you. So work on loving and appreciating yourself and everything else will follow.
It's always a good idea to go off the subject for a while when you feel lost. I'm sure it would be beneficial for you right now.
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Try to thing less in him and more in you, do some exercise, do some hobbies, be happy, try to be in peace and have faith.
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Sanshi wrote:
You can't rush a manifestation. When you feel the need to rush it, it's a great indicator that you are focused on the lack and that you aren't ready for your manifestation yet.
You say you feel not appreciated but do you appreciate yourself the way you want him to appreciate you? People reflect how we see ourself and their behaviour only affect you, if you have the same within you. So work on loving and appreciating yourself and everything else will follow.
It's always a good idea to go off the subject for a while when you feel lost. I'm sure it would be beneficial for you right now.
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Yes I do appreciate myself I really do. I think it's cause I always think about the lack of attention and I get more of that. But you're right I'll go off of the subject for now and work on myself. Thanks Sanshi and I hope you're doing well
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Kavik wrote:
Try to thing less in him and more in you, do some exercise, do some hobbies, be happy, try to be in peace and have faith.
I absolutely agree and see that now. I should look at myself more right now. Thank you Kavik, I'm planning on mediating since I've stopped that awile ago
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Oh, Sanshi! You've managed to add up the determination for me to love, accept and appreciate life, myself and God above all. God and me above all else first and indeed the rest will follow! There is no other and this has gotta work cos it already is working for me. Let's all keep on believing and prioritizing our ownselves first before others so that we can give back to others what we have planted and nurtured deep inside us. Also, let's appreciate all the things, people, experiences and everything NOW and let's live in the present moment. Remember, this has got to work and is already working thru God and thru us! Much love and light to everybody in this forum! Let's keep on motivating each other! Shout outs to Jensherratt who's been very active in helping all of us and is very generous of her insights to keep us right on track always! Goe bless us all. πβ€πβ
Sanshi wrote:
You can't rush a manifestation. When you feel the need to rush it, it's a great indicator that you are focused on the lack and that you aren't ready for your manifestation yet.
You say you feel not appreciated but do you appreciate yourself the way you want him to appreciate you? People reflect how we see ourself and their behaviour only affect you, if you have the same within you. So work on loving and appreciating yourself and everything else will follow.
It's always a good idea to go off the subject for a while when you feel lost. I'm sure it would be beneficial for you right now.
Β
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Aisha wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
You can't rush a manifestation. When you feel the need to rush it, it's a great indicator that you are focused on the lack and that you aren't ready for your manifestation yet.
You say you feel not appreciated but do you appreciate yourself the way you want him to appreciate you? People reflect how we see ourself and their behaviour only affect you, if you have the same within you. So work on loving and appreciating yourself and everything else will follow.
It's always a good idea to go off the subject for a while when you feel lost. I'm sure it would be beneficial for you right now.
ΒYes I do appreciate myself I really do. I think it's cause I always think about the lack of attention and I get more of that. But you're right I'll go off of the subject for now and work on myself. Thanks Sanshi and I hope you're doing well
That's great. You are worth to be appreciated. <3 Yes, that is the reason for sure.
I'm doing great. I just moved and because of that wasn't that active here, but now I'm back with new experiences and insights.
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Aisha wrote:
Hey guys, I wanted to get my emotions out but in a positive environment so here I am. Lately I've just been feeling off. It's so hard when you're manifesting a specific person.
Honestly everything was going well and it still is in a way I guess. But sometimes I just can't help but get jealous sometimes. I wanna be his already. It's hard to talk to him in person cus I get so nervous around him. Sometimes he'll text me other days he won't contact for days. And I wanna respect his space too you know? I wanna know what goes through his mind about me (if only I had that as a superpower ;)). It's so hard to "let go" too when you have so much love and memories from them. I smile when I think about me and him. I really really love him guys π. He's not an ex-boyfriend or anything for those wondering. To be honest I feel so under appreciated too sometimes. I'm very open minded and loving towards everyone. But I feel like he doesn't appreciate me sometimes. I don't wanna accept these negative feelings but as I'm typing these feelings I'm open to accept them now. I've just felt so jealous and I've just missed him. Even though I see him around its hard for us to talk on in person because he's such a serious person and I just get so nervous around him. He knows about my feelings for him because I confessed and he was so sweet and open about it but I'm just really lost in my mind right now. Thanks for reading guys! Any advice would be helpful
I find dedicating time to hobbies and mediation take my mind off the desperation I feel. I'm a massive fan of video games, movies and reading so I like to take a break from my current reality and diverse myself in an alternate reality where I can be someone else for a few hours. What are you interested in? Focus on those things! 10 minute meditation sessions also helped me a lot, I'm just starting to get back into those. Guided meditations can be helpful too.Β
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Sanshi wrote:
Aisha wrote:
Sanshi wrote:
You can't rush a manifestation. When you feel the need to rush it, it's a great indicator that you are focused on the lack and that you aren't ready for your manifestation yet.
You say you feel not appreciated but do you appreciate yourself the way you want him to appreciate you? People reflect how we see ourself and their behaviour only affect you, if you have the same within you. So work on loving and appreciating yourself and everything else will follow.
It's always a good idea to go off the subject for a while when you feel lost. I'm sure it would be beneficial for you right now.
ΒYes I do appreciate myself I really do. I think it's cause I always think about the lack of attention and I get more of that. But you're right I'll go off of the subject for now and work on myself. Thanks Sanshi and I hope you're doing well
That's great. You are worth to be appreciated. <3 Yes, that is the reason for sure.
I'm doing great. I just moved and because of that wasn't that active here, but now I'm back with new experiences and insights.
That's wonderful to hear! Hope you love your new place welcome back
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:
Aisha wrote:
Hey guys, I wanted to get my emotions out but in a positive environment so here I am. Lately I've just been feeling off. It's so hard when you're manifesting a specific person.
Honestly everything was going well and it still is in a way I guess. But sometimes I just can't help but get jealous sometimes. I wanna be his already. It's hard to talk to him in person cus I get so nervous around him. Sometimes he'll text me other days he won't contact for days. And I wanna respect his space too you know? I wanna know what goes through his mind about me (if only I had that as a superpower ;)). It's so hard to "let go" too when you have so much love and memories from them. I smile when I think about me and him. I really really love him guys π. He's not an ex-boyfriend or anything for those wondering. To be honest I feel so under appreciated too sometimes. I'm very open minded and loving towards everyone. But I feel like he doesn't appreciate me sometimes. I don't wanna accept these negative feelings but as I'm typing these feelings I'm open to accept them now. I've just felt so jealous and I've just missed him. Even though I see him around its hard for us to talk on in person because he's such a serious person and I just get so nervous around him. He knows about my feelings for him because I confessed and he was so sweet and open about it but I'm just really lost in my mind right now. Thanks for reading guys! Any advice would be helpfulI find dedicating time to hobbies and mediation take my mind off the desperation I feel. I'm a massive fan of video games, movies and reading so I like to take a break from my current reality and diverse myself in an alternate reality where I can be someone else for a few hours. What are you interested in? Focus on those things! 10 minute meditation sessions also helped me a lot, I'm just starting to get back into those. Guided meditations can be helpful too.Β
I'm planning on meditating again. I did something called the pink bubble technique I don't if anyone has heard of it and that really took my mind off of it, somehow haha