Change_in_progress wrote:

So today i txt him and told him that i was letting go cause i cant hold on to this hurt anymore and i feel he is punishing me. I wished him well and left it at that. Still i havent got a reply but then again i didnt think i would. Should i just give up. He has blocked me on everything which is completely not like him. I hurt him and now im the 1 hurting i have tried to stayed positive, wore makeup, done my hair, started those projects i have been putting off. But i still dont feel like this is gonna happen. Some1 please help x

I don't know about your story, but you seem to be very hurt and I guess the breakup wasn't that long ago. Give yourself some time to feel better and get over the breakup. Pamper yourself, do everything you enjoy and don't do it to get anything, but do it for you, do it because you are worth it, do it because you want to feel better. With time, your feelings about him will change. Not in the sense that you won't love him anymore, but you will look at it from a distance and it will be easier to focus in a way that is serving you. You can't force yourself into positivity directly after a breakup. You need to heal. Use the time to experiment with LoA. Attract little things and look what works for you and what doesn't. Look at your feelings and what manifests and have fun with it. Try to get him out of your head for a while and when you feel better about the breakup, you can start to attract him back. But everything you do before you have healed is most probably counterproductive.

A week, that's absolutely nothing. You know, I had still lived with my ex after the breakup and when I look back, it made everything harder. It's a big chance to have no contact with him. If you haven't read Cherished's post about no contact, I would highly recommend it. It's pure gold: http://veronicaloa.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1511.
I know that nobody wants to hear in the beginning that it will take time, but it will. You need time to heal, time to grow so that you won't make the same mistakes again and time to practice the teachings. But I can tell you one thing: This experience can change your life, if you give it the chance to do so. When I think back, this breakup was the best thing that could happen to me. So take the time and please don't do it just to get him back. That isn't healthy and it doesn't work anyway. At the moment, it's important that you go through the feelings. You have a very strong momentum going and you can't change your feelings from being depressed to being happy. It's just not possible. Give it a month or two and you will naturally feel better.

Change_in_progress wrote:

So today i txt him and told him that i was letting go cause i cant hold on to this hurt anymore and i feel he is punishing me. I wished him well and left it at that. Still i havent got a reply but then again i didnt think i would. Should i just give up. He has blocked me on everything which is completely not like him. I hurt him and now im the 1 hurting i have tried to stayed positive, wore makeup, done my hair, started those projects i have been putting off. But i still dont feel like this is gonna happen. Some1 please help x

It sounds like you're really hurting. I've been in similar situations, take some time to get over the bad feeling. Focus on yourself more. forgive him and yourself. I don't mean to sound mean but in your current state it's not going to happen, if you think it won't happen, it won't. 

I've got a list of self love affirmations I use to boost my confidence if I need it. Once you're in a better place it'll all align perfectly. 
Sending you light and love.  xx

Think of the good times in the old days, feel it, love it and act like it is happening right now. Because this is the only way to draw the good times back to you. Remember, he is back already right now in your life and you are grateful that it is DONE.