- ShootingStar
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Re: Just my observation..
Yeah actually GirlyGirl11 just nsiled it for me :3 inkii you came on here at first with that vibe of 'if I don't have him, I'll never be happy, he is the One, he is the One and without him life is meaningless' which we all get after a break up, so OK, but then you started getting angry at everyone for letting you know the joy of life and happiness if you open youre mind to other things and people and then he might just come on by if he is the one...but you acted like that was the worst advice ever and that you will never consider anyone over him and you will live in mourning until he comes back which is so bleak and desperate and unhappy. Newsflash OK, people heal, people grow, people get over things and then become happy and strong people and that's how they attract things and if you actually do get your ex back in your vibe, you'll lose him within a year for sure because your vibe is generally needy and clingy and desperate. Honestly I'd hate to be him with you feeling that way about me, it would be suffocating and awful! So if you hate the way our posts have been because we're healing and getting healthy and happy, then that does make sense because your vibe is the total opposite to that and I hope new comers read the happy healthy posts and not your desperate clingy dreary posts
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- Sanshi
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Okay, you don't care about the forum. Why did you even post this then? I wouldn't take the time to do that, but that's just me.
You need still constant reassurance that it IS possible. But the stuff is there, you can read through old post and can ignore the responses of members whose posts you don't enjoy reading. I enjoy reading much of ShootingStar's posts lately, but some things she writes doesn't resonate with me at all. But that doesn't bother me. I accept that her truth is another one than mine. I take the parts that I enjoy reading and ignore the rest. Cherished has posted sooo much - over 3000 posts. She repeated the same stuff over and over again with the patience of an angel. How many posts do you need to be satisfied? I guess you can't be satisfied, because you still doubt it and need someone who tells you that it is possible on a daily basis.
I personally changed my approach, because I see people running with full speed in a very unhealthy place and I feel more and more resistance about just telling them that it is possible and that they shouldn't give up, even if they are in the process of ruining their life with it. I still believe that you can attract someone, but it isn't longer my main message, because it leads people in the wrong direction. If it is just a little visualising and stuff, where are all the great success stories?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Nice one Sanshi ! Cherished was cool but it was hard to get on her level at times for me, like I'd see her giving this big advice to someone who didn't get it and just took from it 'you'll get him back' as if she was a fairy godmother granting them their wish and I know she's well meaning but I did bring up with her an issue I had which was giving false hope to desperate people can be dangerous. She took that very badly and I know why, she is in a place of total positive belief, but the truth is, not many people are in that place and the saddest thing for me is to watch desperate people really believe only to be sorely disappointed :/ I have full belief in loa but I don't have full belief in people I don't know actually implementing it correctly and I don't want to tell someone something is for sure when I don't know them and I don't know the situation and I don't know the other person...I lived in depression over hoping and wanting a guy and I don't want to encourage people to do that, especially if I genuinely don't know. Their specific person might just not want them, there have been plenty of times I haven't wanted someone who's wanted me and that would never have changed... So living in hope of that is so unhealthy and sad
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- iinikkii
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YASSS!!! I KNEW I would get blasted for making an observation! That's way cool tho! My vibe is way up, so no worries. Instead of everyone taking it so personally, why not look at the basis of what I said? Actually I haven't been on here in a minute asking for "reassurance".. Know why? Bc I'm taking the advice that was given and living my damn life! And I must say.. Life truly gets better and better everyday! No need in getting defensive! Can't we not just have a discussion?
Maybe all your defensiveness has more to do with y'all personally than it has to do with me?? Wouldn't that be apart of the LOA message?
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Re: Just my observation..
Lol I love Fairy Godmothers 💞
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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iinikkii wrote:
YASSS!!! I KNEW I would get blasted for making an observation! That's way cool tho! My vibe is way up, so no worries. Instead of everyone taking it so personally, why not look at the basis of what I said? Actually I haven't been on here in a minute asking for "reassurance".. Know why? Bc I'm taking the advice that was given and living my damn life! And I must say.. Life truly gets better and better everyday! No need in getting defensive! Can't we not just have a discussion?
Maybe all your defensiveness has more to do with y'all personally than it has to do with me?? Wouldn't that be apart of the LOA message?
Much love to you all
I can only speak for myself, but the funny thing is I didn't take it personally and I didn't even see who blasted you? I wasn't defensive at all, but if you enjoy seeing it that way, you are of course free to do so. My new rule is to not reply to threads that make me feel bad, so your post obviously wasn't one of them. Sorry to disappoint you.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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I'm fine about who is on the forum now. But my one sadness is that Cherished isn't making any more of her fabulous posts anymore. To be honest, her posts and general replies were as good as any loa book I've ever read. Cherished, where are you?
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