I took a week (ish) 'off' thinking about this specific person. It was suggested on another thread that I feel love for him rather than jealousy and although I am not quite at that stage, I have found a point at which I want him to be happy, even if it is with the other girl (do not ask me how I got to this stage - I have no idea other than thinking about him less). I feel less stressed, less clingy, more refreshed and like I have let go a bit. Much better. Earlier this week, he was in my physical vicinity standing and talking to someone and looking in my direction. I got more of a sense of his physicality if I wanted to visualise more (which is what I wanted before). I don't, as it happens.

He is the big boss man at our company. Normally we never get the chance to meet. I have not spoken to him and i've been working there for 9 months. In a couple of weeks, a social event has been arranged for a few us and he is coming along (he basically never ever does this). The only problem is, it's the exact same afternoon I have booked off for extensive dental work. I am the only one off that afternoon. What terrible luck. It's like both attracting and not attracting. So... what would your plan of 'action' be? Carry on 'as you were' or take advantage of the opportunity and put off the dental work/change the date? I am not even sure if my dentist will allow it but I wanted to ask. Is this too much 'chasing after Fred'? Too much effort? Would you try to change the date? I should also point out that this dental work (braces) is going to make me less inclined to want to speak to him after it takes place for obvious reasons!!! A window of opportunity perhaps?