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9/17/2016 5:04 pm  #1


Good news!/Bad news

So Tuesday night my ex texted me asking me to come over and talk! When I got there, he said he was so confused and hoping I'd have a good answer. He said he still cares about me but is busier than last semester and doesn't know what to do. I said that I didn't want to leave things ambiguous anymore and that if he wanted to start talking and see where it goes, I'm open to that, but if not I need to stop talking to him altogether because it's too painful. I told him I respect whatever his feelings are. He said he wants to start hanging out with me again and asked me to stay for a while after our talk. Then, he said he wanted to cuddle and asked if he could have a kiss (first one in 5 months). We ended up talking and making out for 3 hours. I told him I needed to go and he said "Noooo, please wait until the end of the episode. I don't want you to go!" I stayed a little bit and then kissed him goodnight. So then on Friday, I texted him asking what he was doing. I assumed this was okay since we decided we are "talking" again and it had been a few days. He responded immediately and said he was going out. I asked if he wanted to hang out sometime this weekend and he still has not responded... I'm feeling horrible and SO CONFUSED. Now what? Is it time to give up?  

 

9/17/2016 6:12 pm  #2


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it is def not time to give up! Look how far you have come!!! Raise your vibration back up, make plans the same as he did, and have fun! he is probably confused as to what is going on and if you are having doubts, that is showing the universe that you are unsure if you want this! Know without a doubt he is already yours!!!


"You can be, do, and have whatever you want. You are the creator of your reality."
 

9/17/2016 7:13 pm  #3


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Hang in there! He obviously likes you!

 

9/17/2016 7:52 pm  #4


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Thank you guys so much!! I really appreciate your encouragement. Should I work on raising my vibration for a week or two and see what happens? And should I wait for him to reach out first? I think I got a little too excited/eager 

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9/18/2016 2:50 pm  #5


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I'm no expert, but I think he's taking a breather and will be back. He probably feels a lot of emotion since you just hung out after all those months, and had such a passionate make out session. I say get your vibration high by doing things that make you happy and focus on you!

 

9/18/2016 8:52 pm  #6


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Thank you Topaz!! After thinking about it... I was having doubts and they were reflected back to me in his actions. But I've been working on raising my vibration this weekend and feel much better! When using loa, do you manifest the same relationship back or can it actually change how another person treats you?

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9/18/2016 9:00 pm  #7


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dem0019 wrote:

Thank you Topaz!! After thinking about it... I was having doubts and they were reflected back to me in his actions. But I've been working on raising my vibration this weekend and feel much better! When using loa, do you manifest the same relationship back or can it actually change how another person treats you?

That's great that have been able to work so well on your vibration this weekend! With LOA and love, you are supposed to manifest a new, better relationship than the one before. New energy, more appreciation, cherishing each other more... If you try to manifest the same relationship, you'll get the same results, i.e., a breakup. But with a brand-new energy, there is great potential for it to be the relationship of your dreams. You can absolutely have them treat you much better and with more love. 

BTW, since you're posting in this forum, I assume you are doing the 25-day challenge?
 

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9/18/2016 9:26 pm  #8


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So do you think my fear of him not being able to change/still being too busy for me is what caused him to not respond? Is this fixable? I'm really trying to change my mindset and be 100% positive.

I attempted the 25 day challenge over the summer but I couldn't keep up with it all... I'm taking so many classes to try and graduate early. I did as many of the challenges as I had time for though! Have you completed it/had any successes? 

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9/18/2016 10:03 pm  #9


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LOA for love has worked for me twice in the past (but I asked for the wrong kind of relationship in the first case, and the second guy turned out to be wrong for me in a different way),  but not in this relationship - yet. I haven't tried the course yet - like you, I have a ton of things going on but I plan to try it soon. I've read a lot of books and applied the lessons but I think my emotions are getting the best of me. My best friend died last year and my parents have been sick a lot and all that's been very distracting, and made it challenging to stay positive, but I have not given up! I hope we both get what we want. You two did just hang out so I think you're on the right path.

 

9/18/2016 10:07 pm  #10


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dem0019 wrote:

So do you think my fear of him not being able to change/still being too busy for me is what caused him to not respond? Is this fixable? I'm really trying to change my mindset and be 100% positive. 

I forgot to answer this question and I do think that your fears can be felt and could be causing him to keep away. That, and/or just his own confusion. I'd try to focus on other things, like your studies, and not him right now.
 

 

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