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Mistakenly made contact
I've liked a guy for a while now and he liked me back. We never dated, but the interest was there. We used to communicate via Facebook until he suddenly restricted me from seeing his posts. I can see all his past posts but since June 2016 none of his newer ones. He's turned off chat on me as well. But occasionally will post something as public although he has never done that before. I've done no contact since then.
I've been struggling to stay in the "as if" frame of mind. There are times when I get upset the he has restricted me and I am tempted to block him. He doesn't have messenger or he has blocked me from it. Today, just now in fact, I very truly by accident invited to messenger. I'm panicking now. I made contact when I didn't want do.
I am worried that it makes me look desperate. I'm even more tempted now to block him.
I am trying the 25 day challenge but I'm waffling back and forth on it. Please tell me what to do. I've posted elsewhere about restricting him and was told to do what feels good. Blocking means I'll be un friending him but restricting doesn't.
I really need advice. I feel so dumb now because of that invitation.
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Re: Mistakenly made contact
Just calm down girl. This isn't something very extreme. Do you msg your relative or Friends and think whole day about it and worry what they might be thinking about me? No, right?? Just don't think so much. He is no special human on planet. You are more important for you. You did it then forget it. Nothing ever goes wrong completely. Everything is working out for us. Just calm down and stable your vibrations. 
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- issha
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Re: Mistakenly made contact
Scarlet Angel wrote:
Just calm down girl. This isn't something very extreme. Do you msg your relative or Friends and think whole day about it and worry what they might be thinking about me? No, right?? Just don't think so much. He is no special human on planet. You are more important for you. You did it then forget it. Nothing ever goes wrong completely. Everything is working out for us. Just calm down and stable your vibrations.
Thank you. I was a bit frantic about the fact that I sent that invitation to him. I was worried (and still am a bit) that he would think I was trying to contact him when clearly it's not what he wants, at least not right now. I was thinking that it would push him further away.
Reading your statement that he is no special human and that I am important as well helped. But still I am wondering should I react. Should I leave my Facebook as his or should I restrict him to show him ....as I am typing this I don't really know why I want to do it.
I'm hurt by his actions, I want to show him I don't care if he contacts me or not ( but I do).
Getting calm but not in the mood to read affirmations or do Visualizations.
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Re: Mistakenly made contact
For all you know, this could be the universe's way of bringing him back into your life. You have to learn to assume that everything is always working out.
Yes, you a right. after I calmed down a bit I tried to think positively and came up with that, but was wondering if I am just fooling myself.
Thank you for affirming the thought for me.
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