LoveYourself wrote:

Yes it's ok to still think about them, whilst you're distracting yourself having a life I think I got a bit off track when things were starting to move forward, but I'm back on track now
It is so so easy to get off track when you obsess about them too much and the results and it takes motivation and patience to get back on the road to the one you desire

 
What do you do to get yourself back on track？

LoveYourself wrote:

I just get on with things that I've been putting off or neglecting for a while just general things around the house, there's always something needs doing

Me too!
I have a hallway that desperately needs a paint job. So at the weekend I'm going to fully enjoy going in building shops and finding a new color to it + maybe a nice new carpet + maybe some wall stickers. And hopefully I finally come to painting it as well 

UnicornsAndJizz wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

LoveYourself wrote:

I just get on with things that I've been putting off or neglecting for a while just general things around the house, there's always something needs doing

 
Seems like I should get on things to do to not thinking of him. But I'll always check for his replies, and I know he is busy so he didn't reply me so I don't feel negative at all. I just hope that he can find me more often. I also need to keep my faith up!

Excactly!! The busier you are the less often you will check for his replies. And imagine the feeling when you finally remember to check your messages and you find that he is there waiting for your replies

 
I don't check much on his replies. Just that when I checked on it he didn't reply, I would feel okay at the first time but the second or third I might feel sad. Anyway, it couldn't keep it up for forever right? What if I want commitment? Does that helps? Well, I was doing ri at the mo and reading amargi's mind power seduction. I'm still waiting for good results! I know it's on the way!!

LoveYourself wrote:

Hisoneandonly wrote:

LoveYourself wrote:

I agree with unicorn he always appears when I distract myself just try to keep this up now lol.
I've got loads to do around the house and I've hurt my arm at the mo so any DIY is out of the question!
I'm going to have to get a cleaner in as well lol

Hmm you distract yourself let him appears, what if you want him to stay? What would you do for that?
 

I'm not sure what you mean? Once he's appeared then I have to distract myself even more! lol. It was great today and I would like more, but I also want things to take their time as too much too soon is too much for me
Last time I bumped into him, I became too impatient. This time around I'm going to try not to get impatient lol.
Oooo I'd better go and check FB to see if he's posted anything!! hehehe, just kidding

Why do you have to distract yourself even more when he appeared? Well, I mean, you distract yourself and he appeared, what if you wanted him to stay appear and not leaving anymore, what would you do?
 

Hi the winner, I've read the post!
  Well, we're on long distance relationship so he can't come over my house to meet me up heh. I did rs/ri but I don't know am I in the right path. If you have any ldr success stories please let me know! I need some hope and faith.