Yes, you can turn it around. I've been doing it and so many others have done it! But let's start again. Do you  really believe that you create your own reality?

CarpeDiem...I used to ask for proof also but I realized asking for prooof was indicating that I don't have enough faith and patience for the Universe/God to help me. You ask for proof for something that is lacking. If you had your guy this very moment then you wouldn't be asking for proof or talking to any of us.

I have been in your situation before and I realized with Veronica's help and learning about LOA, that you honestly can't even have an ounce of doubt. You can't put a time limit even though sometimes it seems as if time is ticking away.

LOA is working all the time. For my situation, I have told myself that I just like how a restuarant always gives me what I order, the Universe is also going to give me my guy. Just like how in a restaurant you aren't worried about your food, you somehow have to find a way to not worry. Just be happy knowing that your guy is coming

Have you talked to Veronica lately?

Ok. Deep breaths. Will you try something for me? This helped me immensely when I was in the funk to end all funks. Trust me, my life was not all roses, and it wasn't so long ago either.

Can you please tell me where you are on this scale? No wrong answer, just identify where you think you are at right now?

1.    Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
2.    Passion
3.    Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
4.    Positive Expectation/Belief
5.    Optimism
6.    Hopefulness
7.    Contentment
8.    Boredom
9.    Pessimism
10.    Frustration/Irritation/Impatience
11.    Overwhelment
12.    Disappointment
13.    Doubt
14.    Worry
15.    Blame
16.    Discouragement
17.    Anger
18.    Revenge
19.    Hatred/Rage
20.    Jealousy
21.    Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
22.    Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness

OK great! Because you have already proven to yourself what a powerful creator you are,  you are now going to recreate your outlook on this story you keep telling! 😊  Anger is actually a good place to start! This process will help you enormously if you can just give it a little while and put in the effort.

What I want you to do is rewrite your story. But in factual points. Bullet points, No rambling. And do it purely from a perspective of anger. Do it here, so others can be inspired by the progress you are going to make! And we will help you along. What you want to do is really allow yourself to roll around in anger for today, maybe even tomorrow. Feel it, accept it, live it. That's where you are, and it's totally acceptable.
When you are ready, you are going to rewrite your dilemma AGAIN. But from 16. Discouragement. Again, bullet points only- succinct, factual sentences that describe your feelings on this topic.
Do the same thing. Spend a day or 2 in discouragement. It's not a huge leap from anger, so if you focus, it should be quite an easy merging into that new feeling. BUT the magic of it is that you are actually raising your vibration slowly, meaning that LOA will immediately notice you emitting that new frequency. And things will start to change in your physical reality. Little things. CAVEAT.. Your guy will not be magically making you breakfast just  yet.. But don't look at that, things ARE changing and he's coming! Spend a few days really feeling comfortable in discouragement if you have to, but then look towards 15. Blame. And off you go. Start blaming!! Do it here so we can help you and guide you and cheer you on!

What you will notice if you do this process properly, is that you can make very real and lasting shifts in what you think your emotions are. You can very quickly get yourself out of anger and all the way up to simply pessimism. And before long a little hope can sneak in.. And then LOA will help you by showing evidence of this changed perspective in your outer world. And I KNOW you want your guy, but for right now, wouldn't it be wonderful to sinply FEEL BETTER than you do? And to know that YOU have the power to turn it all around by yourself?

Don't you want to get YOU as happy as you can before you introduce your guy back into your life? Invest a little time in becoming the very best version of you, and then watch your man come back in. And then you can be proud and know 100% that he's lucky to have the best partner  ever 😊 Because if you managed to attract him back right this second, you would still be sabotaging it with your anger and disappointment and resentment about the past. As you work your way up the emotional scale, you literally let go of all of that. It becomes conpletely irelevant. In fact, all the things that once made you FURIOUS no longer even touch you. It feels so liberating.

You asked me to share my story, and while I've told bits and pieces of it here and there, I think I'm going to refrain. I've worked my way up that scale from 22. DESPAIR. I promise. And it was not so long ago. My life was absolutely diabolical. You have no idea. But I DID THE WORK and I'm getting better every single day. Telling my story again will just set me back. Because I'm a deliberate creator and I KNOW EMPHATICALLY that whatever I write, say, think and feel will impact my vibration and create in my reality. So I see no value to either you or me in rehashing my story. You don't need my story or anybody else's story. You need only do the process I've told you about, and throw yourself into it wholeheartedly. I'll help you along the way. You can do it. And when people come here in despair and read your journey, they will be inspired by what you have accomplished. And you will be helping others just like I'm helping you😘

Excellent. That's perfect. You are sitting beautifully in anger, and that's totally completely fine. There is nothing to fix, and you can simply for right now acknowledge that this is where you are at. Well done! I'm super impressed you actually got going so quickly, this is a fantastic first step. Everyone is going to be so inspired as they watch you work yourself (with our cheering on) out of your funk.

You can stay there as long as you feel it is necessary. Know that you don't have to "fix" anything. All the points you made are completely valid, and in a vibration of anger they feel very rigid. But as you gently move into the next enotion- whether that be tomorrow or in a few days, or in a few weeks (you'll know when you're ready and you can tell us) your focus will shift slightly. Your anger will soften ever so slightly, and you will be releasing all of these things that currently have you wound up so tightly. So don't try to DO anything, don't take any action. This is totally an inside (your mind) job.. , it will work itself out as you slowly but surely move up the scale. Promise. 😘