Lovelife wrote:

So yesterday (Day 17 of 25 days challenge) I visualized our reconciliation through text, it felt so vivid! I went for an awesome morning run and didn't think about my visualisation anymore. When I came back I saw a notifacation on my fb messenger. It was from him! I was shocked. It is probably send at the same time of my visualization session. It was only a "thumb up" emoiji, however we havent talked on fb messenger since nov 2015!! So it probably was a mistake, but he was lurking on my fb page/in our chat history otherwise he couldn't accidently have send that. This was my second time during the 25 days challenge to manifest some form of contact from him (after been apart for a year now).

So I didn't reply immediately, got my vibes even more up and replied with a little joke. However, he didnt replied to that anymore.. I expected him to react  so now my vibes are getting a little bit down because I can let him reach out to me but can't continue a steady conversation. How to continue?

His birthday is also coming up, should I message him then? Or wait till he contacts me again?

Please help. I am getting a bit lost.. 

Just send a short message saying happy birthday. That's all.

Lovelife, I'm in a very similar place to you. It's been ages since we spoke, but there are little signs that she's clearly thinking about me.

I have a ton of faith that this will work out and, actually, I've tested my feelings: I've tried dating others and focusing on other pursuits, like writing, but she always comes back. There's no way I can give up full-time, even if I sometimes want to, and the strength of this emotion causes me to think she's in a similar way, even if she's not admitting it yet.

I think the only real way to do this—and, long-term members, correct me if I'm wrong—is to be a fool and believe it all the more in spite of those doubts and just continue as we are. I'm trying to commit more honest effort to visualization, and I do some low-key stuff on my commutes or as I'm cooking, and it makes me feel better, which makes me think it's the right path.

I know 'hold on, it'll happen' isn't great advice, but that faith seems to be the majority of what we need. I'm thankful you shared your story, too, since it gives me hope about my similar situation. Best of luck as you continue your adventure!