You are the universe. It's not about trying to show something to the universe or God, hoping that it will reward you for doing something. That's a recipe for overthinking everything, feeling like you're stepping on eggshells.

The way I see it, what we think and feel most repetitively or intensely becomes subconscious. That's the blueprint by which God (or the Universe or Higher Self or Angels) translates our "energy" into reality. Any action we need to take will either be inspired or flow in line with our own belief system.

Ask yourself how you would think, feel, and act if you had your goal accomplished. Think on it. What action helps you feel closer to your goal? That's where your answer is.

The point is not to try to show the universe something and think too hard about what this universe thinks. Instead, think and feel as if you already have the love you desire. The right action to take will be clearer from that space.