Hey, guys! Hope all is well. So, my success story is this:
I came to this forum a few months back to learn how to use LoA to bring my person back. This is after I found out that this rocky fight to bring "us" back to where we once were ended on Valentine's Day. Heartbreaking and devastating to say the least. And through these several months of doing all the techniques, reading Veronica's e-books, youtube videos, etc. my mentality has shifted to a place that I never really knew I could've gotten to. It's like this: you want love? Be like love. Kind, patient, forgiving, smile a lot more, be grateful. Anyway, here's what happened. A few days ago I posted how I discovered that my specific person was still seeing this other guy. Which hurt a bit, then I realized they were in a place that we planned to go to one day. Which hurt some more. But, even though there was a bit of pain...the suffering is how I knew I have grown as a person. The suffering was minimal; I didn't hang on it, it didn't ruin my day, I didn't try to drink the pain away. I felt okay. Because I started patting myself on the back these days. I give myself props for not falling into the old bad habits that I used to. Look, I know a lot of us are here to attract someone back into our lives, but for me, the most important person to bring into my life was the greatest version of me that I can be. Cuz this version of me is better than whatever version of her.
And I started thinking, I know I manifested the end of our "relationship". The fears, the worries, the insecurities, etc. But, I keep forgetting that she ended it, saying she "wasn't ready". Maybe we were both at a low vibe at the time. Maybe it's better than I manifest that, because I manifested this forum and hence manifested this version of me which, quite frankly, I have no idea I would ever become without the heartbreaking incident. And I also realize now, after spending time with my pain, that this hurt  and resistance that I feel so much toward bringing her back isn't me thinking it's not possible. It's sympathy. It's sadness felt toward the two versions of us at the time that their relationship died and didn't work (at the time).  I feel like crying seeing that they did not have a success story bcause their vibe was low. See, from up here, where I'm at now, I can't help but feel bad or sorry for our old selves. It woulda been beautiful. But, a rose did grow from the concrete. I didn't get the old me back (fortunately). I got a new me. And I got the pedestal back. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is, this is my success story. Definitely not what I thought it was gonna be, but I am super glad it is this. That said, I won't be checking this forum as often, or very much at all tbh. I think I got this. But, if anyone needs help, lemme know. I kinda rushed this sorry, I'm running late for school. Peace and love, y'all!