wolf wrote:

if you are offering a vibration of pure love (meaning there's no insecurity or neediness mixed in there)
then they cannot offer you anything else other than that back.

Agreed but if you're offering a vibration of love and they respond back with that, what about how they feel and their vibration? For example let's say I'm talking to my guy and I emit a loving frequency or vibration and he responds to my vibration. What about his vibration? How would I react to that? And if he responds to my vibration back wouldn't that mean he's just reflecting what I send out, how would I know how he really feels about me? I really hope what I said made sense :/

wolf wrote:

Aisha wrote:

wolf wrote:

if you are offering a vibration of pure love (meaning there's no insecurity or neediness mixed in there)
then they cannot offer you anything else other than that back.

Agreed but if you're offering a vibration of love and they respond back with that, what about how they feel and their vibration? For example let's say I'm talking to my guy and I emit a loving frequency or vibration and he responds to my vibration. What about his vibration? How would I react to that? And if he responds to my vibration back wouldn't that mean he's just reflecting what I send out, how would I know how he really feels about me? I really hope what I said made sense :/

I think Abe have said about that that our lovers ARE the perfect reflectors of the vibe we are emitting.
So they do literally reflect what we are sending out.
I'm thinking that we have to remember that all this is is co-creation.
You get back what you put out.
And their emotions do change, too, based on what you are emitting.

I don't know if you've ever been in this kind of situation
where someone is really angry about something and you are not and you are feeling wonderful,
and so you go in with your feeling-wonderful vibration and decide that you're not going to be bothered by them,
so what can happen is that they soften, they lighten up as you're interacting with them.
So their emotions have changed because you were offering a more powerful signal than theirs was.

You know how when low and high vibe come into contact, it can go in three ways:
1) the low one rises to where the high one is
2) the high one lowers to where the low one is
and if neither of those happens
3) both go their separate ways 
because a high vibration cannot "take" being in the same place at the same time with a low vibration
(when the low is not rising)
and the low vibration cannot "take" being in the same place at the same time with a high vibration
(when the high is not lowering)
so they have to go their separate ways.

And I think that's kind of what happens with people.
Your high vibration as you're interacting with the other person is so dominant,
and you're able to hold it, that their vibration rises as well
and their emotions change as they're interacting with you.
It's never like they're being "fake", it's just more based on what vibration you've got going on
when you're interacting with them.
It's sort of like this back and forth thing - you get back what you put out.
If you go with your vibration of Love/Joy/Appreciation etc (same frequencies)
then they either rise to the vicinity of that or the conversation between the both of you is very short-lived
(given that you can hold your vibe and you don't go lower).

Does this explanation make any sense at all?
Lol I'm currently a bit tired and should probably sleep instead of putting my two cents in.

Makes absolute sense, you're very smart even when you're tired! Thank you so much, you should go sleep now wolf! Have a nice long sleep