Knowing H as I do, I really feel that the fact I blocked him on facebook and haven't reached out at all since I told him I felt so sad and couldn't be in contact since he's seeing someone else, will make him stay away from contacting me. I have since unblocked him but I have no idea if he's aware that I have but I haven't sent him a friend request or anything (I know it might then be said that I'm creating this..it's not that I think it impossible that he will just less likely)  He gets easily spooked and I reckon he'll think that contacting me will just stir things up again and upset me. Thing is I have no way now of showing him I'm feeling so much more chilled about everything. I'm extremely cautious though as I know I must let him come to me; this is just throwing me off a bit right now. Should I just trust that he will feel my new vibration? (I'm not saying I'm all the way there yet but I'm in a much better place than I was back then when were last in contact at least, working on just feeling better each day, reaching for better feeling thoughts etc..) I'm obviously very cautious about breaking no contact though!! It's hard when I can't see any results in terms of him warming up to me more again etc, perhaps if I'd agreed to being 'friends' as he asked I would be able to right now.